"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok this is from way back friday, but ive had hella s*hit to do....here it goes

i was on the bus on the way home friday, when i saw this HB latina (about a 6)...i tried to make eye contact but she kept staring straight ahead (for those of you who take sf muni, i couldn't sit next to her b/c the seats are single on one side, so the bus was pretty full:eek: anyway im thinking about how bad it is that im still shy, and i say f*uck it the first chance i get to approach a girl im gonna do it..,so we both get off on the next stop and we happen to start walking next to each other :confused: (dam talk about luck)! so i ask how she's doing...

me: hi how are you?
her: huh?
me: how are u?
her: im fine you?
me: im good u just get out of school?
her: yeah i go to (didn't and still don't know what she said)
its a school for learning english oh
me: is that a high school?
her: laughs no
me: what is it?
her:its a school for learning english
me: how old are you? (beginning to wonder if i picked up jailbait)
her: 19, ill be 20 this year
me: when?
her: july
me: oh thats cool..so where are you from?
her: mexico
me: (spanish) oh when did u move here?
her: (spanish..pretty much in spanish the rest of the way) 3 years ago.
me: oh so u were born there? your not married are you? (i asked that b/c usually the mexican sistas that i meet are married :mad:
her: no
me: who do u live with?
her: my family, i have two sisters and a bro
me: how old is your sister? (just out of curiosity)
her: 15
me: thats cool

summing up: from here on im laughing at myself b/c my spanish isn't all that good, she is laughing, i tell her that she is talking to fast, grabs my arm and apologizes.....she says that she don't believe i don't speak spanish b/c the people she meets don't like to speak it.

so we get to her house (i was walking to the bank near it)
--still in spanish

well here's my stop
*looks at me, shrugs, has this big smile on face*
asked her name, exchanged name and handshake
and i walk away thinking should i ask for her number even though there is a language barrier, and i though ah hell why not, ill see if i can get over the hurdle

me: let me give you a call sometime...
her: ok gives me her number

and i said well it was nice meeting you, and she still was looking at me with a big smile, i guess i should have walked her all the way, but it was across teh street and down and out of my way..

i stilll haven't called her yet, still not sure about language barrier, but there is a good chance ill call...........................im just happy i did it....
 

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if you know spanish, there is no language barrier...
 

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Good stuff. You left just at the right time, u shouldnt have walked with her all the way! It is always funny to speak to Latinas in Spanish when your spanish is poor. It is all just a big joke on you really! hahaha, I try do it all the time, and my spanish is VERY poor, but always breaks the ice and makes them laugh!
 
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