"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Field report.

NSX-R

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2014
Messages
1,219
Reaction score
821
Location
The land of improvement
So i was going to post this last Thursday but my iPhone got stolen and i was in frustration.

Anyway last Wednesday i went to a big club around an hour from my place with a friend of mine , it was an abiparty ( people in Germany know what it is)around 1000 people , ages 16-23. My main focus was to enjoy my time there , wake up my pick up techniques and if there is an opportunity to have a ONS i would grab it.

It was the first time since end of July that i went to a club and tried to pick up some chicks ( except of the cold approaches i did a couple of weeks ago) so it felt like starting from zero again.

First focus was to troll some chicks just to break the ice and get into the mood. After 3-4 chicks there was one hb7 standing there alone so i thought to strike .
Went there :
Me:Why are you staying here alone in such a place ?
Her: i lost my friends
Me: let's call the police to help us find them
Her : *burst out laughing*

We had a small conversation with me trying to review her if she was living somewhere close and end the night in her bed. Bad luck ,she was underage and she was living like an hour away (2 hours away from my home) . Sinci i don't want ldrs anymore i didn't tried to pick her number but i chose to stay with her for a while just for some social proof . Fun fact she was from England and hopefully my game works better in English than German .

I got bored after a while and noticed an hb9 checking me out and maintaining extensive eye contact with me but i remained patient and went to a different target that i spotted earlier. 2 chicks seemed to be around 8/10 ( considering i had a couple of drinks) they were sitting alone on the couch with guy that didn't talked to them . Went there and asked from the other guy if he could move somewhere else because i wanted to speak with the 2 chicks , he moved and i sat there with the chicks. When i saw their faces i was shocked. The 8 had turned into 5 . It was at this moment i made a personal rule for approaches. TIP FOR EVERYONE.
Never approach chicks with a lot of make up cause it's a big indicator of their insecurities and of their ugliness. Thank god they couldn't speak neither of the languages i can speak and i just left.

Went on the bar of the club to relax a bit and have a small drink when i noticed the hb9 sitting on the other side with a couple of guys. Moved there close to the hb9 and i started talking with her . Asked if any of these guy's was a bf of hers and she said no(she was lying) . I thought that's where I'm gonna strike today and wouldn't mind if i was fcking her in my car. I started to escalate more and we were almost making out till her bf intervened and he was really mad at me.

He: You fcker that'my gf
Me: yeah , and what?
He: * something i couldn't hear clearly *
Me: "look i got to go " took out my phone , gave it to the hb9 and she gave me her digits.

After that i was totally turned off . I found my buddy i came to the club with and we left.

The next day my iphone got stolen and i lost all the contacts i had and everything. Bad luck.

To conclude , it was a good night , it felt again a bit hard for me to approach chicks after so long but i was glad because i talked with around 30 chicks in the club and got the digits from half of them.

Looking forward for the next time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
I've always wondered..

How the hell do the posters in foreign countries speak and write English so well?

I mean there are times I can tell they are a non-native English speaker with some phrasing but a lot of times I can't. It's sad that their English is probably better than a lot of people growing up in the US...
 

NSX-R

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2014
Messages
1,219
Reaction score
821
Location
The land of improvement
I've always wondered..

How the hell do the posters in foreign countries speak and write English so well?

I mean there are times I can tell they are a non-native English speaker with some phrasing but a lot of times I can't. It's sad that their English is probably better than a lot of people growing up in the US...
I'll speak for myself only .
Greece is a coutry with a lot of tourism ( tourism is the no 1 resource of money ( please don't start with stupid jokes about our economy , we know we suck )) and that means people need to know a lot of languages cause Greek is not an easy language to learn . Since I'm coming from Greece i can speak fluent English and German. It has nothing to do with education, is just that the people there love to socialise and talk so speaking with tourists about many topics it's something we love to do.

Me myself i have no idea why i can speak german and English so easily without even trying to learn in the first place.
Ooh yes, don't forget how Internet affects everyone.
 

Maximus Rex

Banned
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Messages
2,265
Reaction score
446
Location
Villa Regis
I've always wondered..

How the hell do the posters in foreign countries speak and write English so well?


They learn it here at an early age.
 

CuddleJunkie

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 9, 2015
Messages
769
Reaction score
565
Age
33


They learn it here at an early age.
That's a lie, school sucks at teaching english, at least in Spain. I learnt it by browsing the web and watching movies, and that is part of why my english is so ****ing broken haha. A really formal education in english is something I could do to improve myself, maybe I should prepare an exam or something.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Maximus Rex

Banned
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Messages
2,265
Reaction score
446
Location
Villa Regis
That's a lie, school sucks at teaching english, at least in Spain.
When did I say that schools did an excellent job of teaching English?

I learnt it by browsing the web and watching movies
You do realize that most people don't learn English by browsing the web and watching.

A really formal education in english is something I could do to improve myself, maybe I should prepare an exam or something.
Try



or

 
Top