“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NSUballer

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Went out last friday night to a local bar with one of my friends who was my roomate in college and is now married. Solid wingman and his wife is always out of town so he gets to hang out more.

I end up meeting these two girls who said they were from Vermont. The girl i was into was a solid 7.5 and with a little gym time an 8. Chat her up for a while and I end up asking them to leave with us to go to another bar and they both agree. At this point I know shes into me.

Get to the next bar and i sit real close to her and put my hand on her back under her shirt and she doesnt flinch. I then go for the kiss and she happily obliged me. Next thing I know shes all over me pretty much, because I am a pretty good kisser and I could just tell she was really attracted. Make out a little more then we leave to go to another bar and she rides with me and my friend with her friend.

Get her in the car and shes all over me again. I had my hand in her pants while I was sucking on her tits in my car lol. Most fun Ive had in a while. Anyways, I was going to go back to her place but I had to bring my friend home and it just didnt happen. Get her number and split.

She was really cool overall and its only happened a few times to me where I can go from just met to sucking tits and finger banging in about 1.5 hours.

Saturday night she texts me asking "why im not with them."

I didnt see it until the next day and text her back seeing whats up and that we should hang out later to which she responds "ok." I text her back about an hour later for her address. She didnt respond

Called her yesterday afternoon and she didnt answer. Text her again this morning asking her what happened yesterday and she responds she never made it back to her house she stayed at her friend that I had met the other night.

I then asked her "what time I should come over later." She hasnt responded to that one since 1PM. If she doesnt respond im going wait a couple days and try and set something up again.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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NSUballer said:
Get her in the car and shes all over me again. I had my hand in her pants while I was sucking on her tits in my car lol. Most fun Ive had in a while. Anyways, I was going to go back to her place but I had to bring my friend home and it just didnt happen. Get her number and split.
Huge mistake there. In situations like this, you have to strike the iron while it's hot. When you say "it didn't happen" what you really mean is that you failed make it happen. The following day, the momentum is lost, she feels slutty... or maybe meets another guy...you know how it goes.
 

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Once you cross the slut line, you have to put up or kiss it goodbye. Finger banging is def over the slut line.
 

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Scrouds, are you saying that there is almost no possibility of still banging this one? If so, I disagree.

I've texted her back and forth yesterday and today a few times, maybe six total messages sent. Three of which were about meeting this weekend at some point. The others rapport building.

This girl is actually about to graduate pharm D and become a pharmacist at walgreens next month. $100k salary. She has above average looks and good body. Thick booty and legs.

I think I may have hit the jackpot:yes:
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Unfortunately for you sir this is known as buyers remorse... Like the others have said you needed to act while the iron was hot. Once the whole night/alcohol wears off, women will then reverse rationalize the events that took place... token resistance but worse.

Its not impossible to get this girl out again.. but her guard may be already up thinking you may be looking for just sex. If it were me and I really wanted her, I'd send her an unorthodox random text of some sort to get her focusing on what a great guy you may be... Just my 2 cents
 

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The kicker is she wasn't even drinking. I think we just had a mutual attraction that was really intense. I really haven't hit it off like that with a completely sober woman maybe ever.
 

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NSUballer said:
Scrouds, are you saying that there is almost no possibility of still banging this one? If so, I disagree.

I've texted her back and forth yesterday and today a few times, maybe six total messages sent. Three of which were about meeting this weekend at some point. The others rapport building.

This girl is actually about to graduate pharm D and become a pharmacist at walgreens next month. $100k salary. She has above average looks and good body. Thick booty and legs.

I think I may have hit the jackpot:yes:
I wish you the best of luck. I do think the odds aren't good, but that's not a reason to back down and not try.
 
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