"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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davester88

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FInally went out to a hockey game with a girl that I am into tonite....we had really good rapport, lots of flirting, the usual IOI's that you would expect...all was going well, I had a few beer in me, and I actually told her that there was something different about her, compared to all the girls I'd been with/seen in the past....

we got talking and I kind of half went for the kiss...she didnt outright reject it,but she said she doesnt do that on the first date, so clearly she's tossing out the sluutt shield...She clearly enjoyed herself and had a blast....and also complimented me on having the balls to tell her what I thought about her...

how would you guys handle this from here on out? I had a generally good nite, but just curious as to how you would progress with this girl, I do see her everysingle day because she is in 2 of my classes at school.

Any help/suggestions are VERY much appreciated

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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War Against Betaism

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I remember that happened to me too. My date was dropping me off home (yes, it sounds pathetic, but I don't drive, and she really wanted to go on a date with me so what can I do?) and I went in for the kiss. She kind of refused, and she's like "no...just a kiss on the cheek okay?" So I just kissed her on the cheek. I went home thinking I fvcked up badly, but next day I planned another date a couple days later. We were making out the entire night.

Has she kissed before? Girls will always be uncomfortable when it comes to their first kiss, or their first couple kisses.
 

davester88

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Yeah, she has definitely kissed before and isn't a rookie at it for sure.....any other explanations or tips how to carry through with this?? I do plan on calling her/seeing her again...
 
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