"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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davester88

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FInally went out to a hockey game with a girl that I am into tonite....we had really good rapport, lots of flirting, the usual IOI's that you would expect...all was going well, I had a few beer in me, and I actually told her that there was something different about her, compared to all the girls I'd been with/seen in the past....

we got talking and I kind of half went for the kiss...she didnt outright reject it,but she said she doesnt do that on the first date, so clearly she's tossing out the sluutt shield...She clearly enjoyed herself and had a blast....and also complimented me on having the balls to tell her what I thought about her...

how would you guys handle this from here on out? I had a generally good nite, but just curious as to how you would progress with this girl, I do see her everysingle day because she is in 2 of my classes at school.

Any help/suggestions are VERY much appreciated

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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I remember that happened to me too. My date was dropping me off home (yes, it sounds pathetic, but I don't drive, and she really wanted to go on a date with me so what can I do?) and I went in for the kiss. She kind of refused, and she's like "no...just a kiss on the cheek okay?" So I just kissed her on the cheek. I went home thinking I fvcked up badly, but next day I planned another date a couple days later. We were making out the entire night.

Has she kissed before? Girls will always be uncomfortable when it comes to their first kiss, or their first couple kisses.
 

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Yeah, she has definitely kissed before and isn't a rookie at it for sure.....any other explanations or tips how to carry through with this?? I do plan on calling her/seeing her again...
 
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