FIELD REPORT! Random pool hall.

[donut dunker]

When I found out me and some friends were gonna go to a pool hall I had low expectations. Very low. I thought all my friends were gonna get wasted and I have to drive them home.That all happened but after 3 hours or so i started talking to the waitress/bartender that was there. It was her (19) and a different one who was a mom and like 27.(Yikes!)Tehy were both good looking though. After talking for 15 mins I got interupted by my friends. Apparently they really wanted me to watch them play or something. So at about 2 they started to close. I finally got up the nerve to ask for her #. I was totally suprised when she agreed. I think I showed it too but I really couldn't help it. So since this is my first time ever number closing how long do I wait to call her and what should I do and such? Open to all suggestions.

 

[jakethasnake]

Dude, since you're a beginner, I'd say that you should call her after no more than 2 days. You see, the fresher you are in her mind, the better the chances. Just one day is too desperate.


And even though some people might say 5 days or even a week is perfect - think about it - if she was really into you she wouldn't give a flying fvck if you took her on a date right then and there. And if she wasn't really into you but was just being polite or had a boyfriend was but was too flattered/scared of being confrontational to say 'no', then it's better you find out sooner than later. You can move right on and waste less time that way.

 

[Phoebus]

And even though some people might say 5 days or even a week is perfect - think about it - if she was really into you she wouldn't give a flying fvck if you took her on a date right then and there.

Jake, my boy, I think you've got it! All this sh!t that "DJ's" preach (you know, the guys who just sit by their computer waiting for a fresh post) is sh!t. Either she feels you or she doesn't. Sure, games can increase interest level, but it must be there first inorder for that to happen.

There are only a limited number of things this site can help wanna be's with. They are in the Bible. Other than that, don't ask questions. Have the balls to try and fail. You will learn yourself what works and what doesn't.

Nite, I will now drink some Bass, make a few calls, and pass out.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Phoebus
Jake, my boy, I think you've got it! All this sh!t that "DJ's" preach (you know, the guys who just sit by their computer waiting for a fresh post) is sh!t. Either she feels you or she doesn't. Sure, games can increase interest level, but it must be there first inorder for that to happen.

There are only a limited number of things this site can help wanna be's with. They are in the Bible. Other than that, don't ask questions. Have the balls to try and fail. You will learn yourself what works and what doesn't.

Nite, I will now drink some Bass, make a few calls, and pass out.

Bravo.



Oh, and thank you.