"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FIELD REPORT! Random pool hall.

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When I found out me and some friends were gonna go to a pool hall I had low expectations. Very low. I thought all my friends were gonna get wasted and I have to drive them home.That all happened but after 3 hours or so i started talking to the waitress/bartender that was there. It was her (19) and a different one who was a mom and like 27.(Yikes!)Tehy were both good looking though. After talking for 15 mins I got interupted by my friends. Apparently they really wanted me to watch them play or something. So at about 2 they started to close. I finally got up the nerve to ask for her #. I was totally suprised when she agreed. I think I showed it too but I really couldn't help it. So since this is my first time ever number closing how long do I wait to call her and what should I do and such? Open to all suggestions.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, since you're a beginner, I'd say that you should call her after no more than 2 days. You see, the fresher you are in her mind, the better the chances. Just one day is too desperate.


And even though some people might say 5 days or even a week is perfect - think about it - if she was really into you she wouldn't give a flying fvck if you took her on a date right then and there. And if she wasn't really into you but was just being polite or had a boyfriend was but was too flattered/scared of being confrontational to say 'no', then it's better you find out sooner than later. You can move right on and waste less time that way. ;)
 
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And even though some people might say 5 days or even a week is perfect - think about it - if she was really into you she wouldn't give a flying fvck if you took her on a date right then and there.
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Jake, my boy, I think you've got it! All this sh!t that "DJ's" preach (you know, the guys who just sit by their computer waiting for a fresh post) is sh!t. Either she feels you or she doesn't. Sure, games can increase interest level, but it must be there first inorder for that to happen.

There are only a limited number of things this site can help wanna be's with. They are in the Bible. Other than that, don't ask questions. Have the balls to try and fail. You will learn yourself what works and what doesn't.

Nite, I will now drink some Bass, make a few calls, and pass out.
 
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Originally posted by Phoebus
Jake, my boy, I think you've got it! All this sh!t that "DJ's" preach (you know, the guys who just sit by their computer waiting for a fresh post) is sh!t. Either she feels you or she doesn't. Sure, games can increase interest level, but it must be there first inorder for that to happen.

There are only a limited number of things this site can help wanna be's with. They are in the Bible. Other than that, don't ask questions. Have the balls to try and fail. You will learn yourself what works and what doesn't.

Nite, I will now drink some Bass, make a few calls, and pass out.
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Bravo. :)



Oh, and thank you. ;)
 
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