Field report question for the veterans

[TheGambino]

It's been a while since I was active on the forum, so much has changed for me in life. Been on my purpose, grinding and going to the gym. I just don't give a f8ck anymore about opinions, try to have the best energy I can and it works. I live life on my terms, leave people that give bad vibes. Women will look at you if they want you, smile, stand next to you, I don't chase anymore.

The best advice I can give you after doing it every fvcking day is be the best version of yourself. Dress well and sharp, sleep well, train well and eat clean. You will f8cking glow and people will feel your presence and women will draw to the strength. Then when you make your appearance, make impact and let her chase.

Now my question because I never quit learning and this forum gave me a lot in my life.

Yesterday I went out and ran into a girl that noticed me. She gave me Ioi's by smiling big and drawing her body towards me in a bar so it was clear as day.
I approached her and went full in cexual mode after a few words by touching her ass and leaning in to grind and dance.
After a bit I isolated her and we made out. She didn't want to lose sight of me and stood next to me all evening.

She stared yapping.

I want children, do you? I kept playing by saying we would have amazing children, I also like baby making blablabla.
I went 100% cexual mode. She kept saying what do you like about woman? I said loyalty honesty and a lot cex.

Her friends approved me I saw that but she said one time ''I dont think I can trust you and your 4 years younger then me I dont like that and I want something serious not ons.

Anyhow at that moment I should've said, ''lets get out of here'' and fvck her but my mom was at my place she visited me and I would have to ask her to go to hers. Also I was with my friend and I thought lets finish the evening with my friend then text her or whatever.

So after an hour I said give me your number ill see you later. Also didn't get her a drink or so.

Anyhow after 30mins I went back in the bar and I stood firm that she should come to me. Some other girls talked to me so I talked back a bit but not too much so that I wouldn't fvck it up with her. But she chatted two other guys up instead and I was like **** it then and went on my business.


I texted her at 2.45 * hey are you still in the bar? If you ask the DJ playermothrfvcker sleezeball in me thats a mistake. I shoudlve never texted but I had a hard d1ck and I thought f8ck it.....

Its now the next day 4 in the afternoon, still no replie.

I also noticed that at 3.00 her friends were there and she wasn't. She couldve left with a guy or alone. its a 50/50 if you ask me.

Now i got two options. Because we were making out for an hour and having such strong chemistry Im thinking of calling.

*Do nothing run into her again sometime in the future she lives in the same city
*Call her tommorow random and talk and try to get a date

Thanks in advance.

 

[Clockwerk50]

1. People underestimate how much logistics and planning affect your game. I plan everything in my life, and in your case, that’s what held you back. If you think improvising and avoiding any kind of planning keeps things more “natural,” you’re making a big mistake. Constant improvisation usually just means you’re being lazy and self-centered. What often draws someone in is the sense that you’ve actually put thought and effort into the moment and that you cared enough to plan ahead.

2. I wouldn’t send another text. She’s already seen your message, and if she were interested, she’d make an effort to continue the conversation and show she wants to see you again.

 

[The Duke]

This is a great example of why its important to have strong awareness and act appropriately to improve your chances.


I want children, do you? I kept playing by saying we would have amazing children, I also like baby making blablabla.
I went 100% cexual mode. She kept saying what do you like about woman? I said loyalty honesty and a lot cex.

''I dont think I can trust you and your 4 years younger then me I dont like that and I want something serious not ons.

I texted her at 2.45 * hey are you still in the bar? If you ask the DJ playermothrfvcker sleezeball in me thats a mistake. I shoudlve never texted but I had a hard d1ck and I thought f8ck it.....

She's basically looking for reassurance that you aren't just there to fuhk her and you did nothing to make her think otherwise. You passed the looks test and ignited the passion flame. But failed the "does he just want to fuhk me and leave" test.

She asked the questions she did because her instincts told her she should be skeptical of you.

Back off your sexual tone some and you won't create barriers you can't break down.

A man needs to use his awareness and calibrate properly. If you do, you'll win more than you lose. Less Rambo, more James Bond.......... More finesse.

The goal is to seduce her, not fuhk her. The fuhking happens naturally when they are properly seduced. Its a lot like foreplay. Turn their minds on first, and they will give you their bodies. Every single one of them works this way.

 

[Bokanovsky]

She's basically looking for reassurance that you aren't just there to fuhk her and you did nothing to make her think otherwise. You passed the looks test and ignited the passion flame. But failed the "does he just want to fuhk me and leave" test.

I don't know if I would agree with you here. Remember, this is a girl the OP met at a bar and started grinding and making out with 10 seconds later. Those were sh!t tests, not genuine questions.

As @Clockwerk50 said, having logistics in place in key. It's just like going to war. You could have the best soldiers, weapons and equipment but you are not going to win if you can't maintain supply lines.

 

[Bigpapa]

It's been a while since I was active on the forum, so much has changed for me in life. Been on my purpose, grinding and going to the gym. I just don't give a f8ck anymore about opinions, try to have the best energy I can and it works. I live life on my terms, leave people that give bad vibes. Women will look at you if they want you, smile, stand next to you, I don't chase anymore.

The best advice I can give you after doing it every fvcking day is be the best version of yourself. Dress well and sharp, sleep well, train well and eat clean. You will f8cking glow and people will feel your presence and women will draw to the strength. Then when you make your appearance, make impact and let her chase.

Now my question because I never quit learning and this forum gave me a lot in my life.

Yesterday I went out and ran into a girl that noticed me. She gave me Ioi's by smiling big and drawing her body towards me in a bar so it was clear as day.
I approached her and went full in cexual mode after a few words by touching her ass and leaning in to grind and dance.
After a bit I isolated her and we made out. She didn't want to lose sight of me and stood next to me all evening.

She stared yapping.

I want children, do you? I kept playing by saying we would have amazing children, I also like baby making blablabla.
I went 100% cexual mode. She kept saying what do you like about woman? I said loyalty honesty and a lot cex.

Her friends approved me I saw that but she said one time ''I dont think I can trust you and your 4 years younger then me I dont like that and I want something serious not ons.

Anyhow at that moment I should've said, ''lets get out of here'' and fvck her but my mom was at my place she visited me and I would have to ask her to go to hers. Also I was with my friend and I thought lets finish the evening with my friend then text her or whatever.

So after an hour I said give me your number ill see you later. Also didn't get her a drink or so.

Anyhow after 30mins I went back in the bar and I stood firm that she should come to me. Some other girls talked to me so I talked back a bit but not too much so that I wouldn't fvck it up with her. But she chatted two other guys up instead and I was like **** it then and went on my business.


I texted her at 2.45 * hey are you still in the bar? If you ask the DJ playermothrfvcker sleezeball in me thats a mistake. I shoudlve never texted but I had a hard d1ck and I thought f8ck it.....

Its now the next day 4 in the afternoon, still no replie.

I also noticed that at 3.00 her friends were there and she wasn't. She couldve left with a guy or alone. its a 50/50 if you ask me.

Now i got two options. Because we were making out for an hour and having such strong chemistry Im thinking of calling.

*Do nothing run into her again sometime in the future she lives in the same city
*Call her tommorow random and talk and try to get a date

Thanks in advance.

you missed the escalation window … she was up for action and you didn’t pull the trigger

Very unlikely you will ever hear back from her

 

[BillyPilgrim]

This is a great example of why its important to have strong awareness and act appropriately to improve your chances.


I want children, do you? I kept playing by saying we would have amazing children, I also like baby making blablabla.
I went 100% cexual mode. She kept saying what do you like about woman? I said loyalty honesty and a lot cex.

''I dont think I can trust you and your 4 years younger then me I dont like that and I want something serious not ons.

I texted her at 2.45 * hey are you still in the bar? If you ask the DJ playermothrfvcker sleezeball in me thats a mistake. I shoudlve never texted but I had a hard d1ck and I thought f8ck it.....

She's basically looking for reassurance that you aren't just there to fuhk her and you did nothing to make her think otherwise. You passed the looks test and ignited the passion flame. But failed the "does he just want to fuhk me and leave" test.

She asked the questions she did because her instincts told her she should be skeptical of you.

Back off your sexual tone some and you won't create barriers you can't break down.

A man needs to use his awareness and calibrate properly. If you do, you'll win more than you lose. Less Rambo, more James Bond.......... More finesse.

The goal is to seduce her, not fuhk her. The fuhking happens naturally when they are properly seduced. Its a lot like foreplay. Turn their minds on first, and they will give you their bodies. Every single one of them works this way.

I don't know if I would agree with you here. Remember, this is a girl the OP met at a bar and started grinding and making out with 10 seconds later. Those were sh!t tests, not genuine questions.

As @Clockwerk50 said, having logistics in place in key. It's just like going to war. You could have the best soldiers, weapons and equipment but you are not going to win if you can't maintain supply lines.

A Hopeless Romantic in a bar setting is still a Hopeless Romantic.

OP don't just sit there making out for an hour, try to feel her up as well and see how she responds.

Recognize when you have a frame battle on your hands as well. Here there was frame conflict from the start.

Lol, this chick asked you if you wanted to have kids before you had a chance to touch her boobs or playfully grab her ass. Not ideal.

Something tells me you're in Italy OP.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Something tells me you're in Italy OP.

"I am baby-making machine," is definitely not a pickup line in the US.

 

[Bokanovsky]

"I am baby-making machine," is definitely not a pickup line in the US.

Welfare queens from Oakland to Detroit would beg to differ.

 

[Bingo-Player]

It just sounds like a very typical drunken club encounter that was never meant to go anywhere other than maybe a ONS if you both kept it together long enough ( which you didn't )

I want children, do you? I kept playing by saying we would have amazing children, I also like baby making blablabla.
I went 100% cexual mode. She kept saying what do you like about woman? I said loyalty honesty and a lot cex.

I'm not sure why you're talking about having children with a woman you met 5 seconds ago ? , it sounds like she brought it up and you ran with it .......neither of you deserved sex that night for engaging in such odd conversation with another stranger

I would only ever use sexual innuendo and indirect stuff going full blown " I WANT TO FVCK YOUR BRAINS OUT" just signals you're a wild animal that can't control himself

Only sloots and maybe a tiny portion of very young inexperienced women will react positively to this type of behaviour generally it just signals low value

 

[TheGambino]

Geuinine good advice from the veterans… i Will tone the Cex stuff down and I had bad luck with logistics this time. Ill learn from my mistake. Thanks gentlemen.

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