"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Field Report: Mall Approaches

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I shocked the living daylights out of a girl when i ca a few weeks back..

I was studying.. then she sits with the back to me, reading these notes..

then i turned around and said: "hey~~ thats (some subject)!! when's your quiz?!" she literially jumped in her chair. :crackup:

Anyhoos, after that, it turned out ok.. bumped into each other 2 weeks later and she remembered my name.. musta been some impression :woo:

Anyways, that was just me being random on a given day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Centaurion
I agree with every single ****ing word in this post.
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Man, I can't believe how many "DJ's" there think cold approaches are BS. In my opinion, they are a staple of meeting women.

I don't have the greatest social circle now that I'm out of college, and I feel like cold approaches are a necessity.

Most of my friends would rather hang in and do nothing than come out with me.. I mean I do approach when we go out to bars/clubs, but they're mostly homebodies who do their own thing.
 
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Cold approaches don't have to be cold

You can be "warm" during a cold approach. It doesn't have to be structured or fancy. Plenty of times I've just walked up to women and started small talk. If you get good vibes, you can always try for more. No harm done and it gets a person out of his shell.

If she isnt single, explain yourself and ask if she has single friends. The referal process hasn't worked very well for me with near strangers, but it might work for someone else since I see it mentioned from tiem to time.
 
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