Field Report: Mall Approaches

[Flyer]

I shocked the living daylights out of a girl when i ca a few weeks back..

I was studying.. then she sits with the back to me, reading these notes..

then i turned around and said: "hey~~ thats (some subject)!! when's your quiz?!" she literially jumped in her chair. :crackup:

Anyhoos, after that, it turned out ok.. bumped into each other 2 weeks later and she remembered my name.. musta been some impression :woo:

Anyways, that was just me being random on a given day.

 

[HOSS83]

Originally posted by Centaurion
I agree with every single ****ing word in this post.

Man, I can't believe how many "DJ's" there think cold approaches are BS. In my opinion, they are a staple of meeting women.

I don't have the greatest social circle now that I'm out of college, and I feel like cold approaches are a necessity.

Most of my friends would rather hang in and do nothing than come out with me.. I mean I do approach when we go out to bars/clubs, but they're mostly homebodies who do their own thing.

 

[everywomanshero]

Cold approaches don't have to be cold

You can be "warm" during a cold approach. It doesn't have to be structured or fancy. Plenty of times I've just walked up to women and started small talk. If you get good vibes, you can always try for more. No harm done and it gets a person out of his shell.

If she isnt single, explain yourself and ask if she has single friends. The referal process hasn't worked very well for me with near strangers, but it might work for someone else since I see it mentioned from tiem to time.