"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Field Report/Lay Report Forum

MVPlaya

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Yes, another post on an FR Forum.

I've been scanning mASF and they've got their FR forum and the good part is guys post about their nights, people critique their game, and they get into good debates about it. SoSuave has interesting debates concerning game (and other non-game matters), but it doesn't get to that level of "So, here was my tactic, I did the Mystery opener with a DYD neg, then topped it with TD's such and such maneuver" and someone says, "well, in that situation, I would have done this/that because I like Group Theory better and I've found that..." and so on.

When we have concrete examples to work with we have a much better critiquing of people's techniques and we have a better debate on the whole issue in general. I think a Field Report would better SoSuave because we would have "hands on" posts and we could have experienced DJs come in and post and critique guys moves.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tryin to Grow a Chin

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I hereby propose that all LR's/FR's be posted in the "Unusual Techniques in Seduction" forum. Most of the stupid assh0les on this site probably consider the concept of actually approaching a woman in real life downright bizarre and certainly outside the bounds of the hyper-analytical circle-jerk that's been taking place in the Discussion Forum.

Love, Chin
 

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Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin
Most of the stupid assh0les on this site probably consider the concept of actually approaching a woman in real life downright bizarre
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Field Report Forum = Essential..


mASF is a good model, we should hope that one day we have half the quality they do..

i second MVPLaya's post.
 

MVPlaya

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I don't think mASF is divine in any way. I think SoSuave has the best advice for rAFC and mASF for DJs... but both could learn a lot from each other. A few things I do like about mASF are the Mission Forum (Bootcamp Forum) and the Field Report Forum, those two make the site pretty damn good IMO.

Anyway, enough talk... I'm about to post an FR myself.

EDIT: My field-report, first posted on mASF.
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&postid=409333#post409333
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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