"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Field Report: Last night w/ a stripper

FreeStyleZ

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So yeah, I got bored and decided I may as well write out my previous night since I applied most of the DJ'ing stuff and it worked really well.

First off this wasnt a stripper or something me and my friends called up out of a phone book, she was a friend of a girl that we all knew and hung out with. They came over together and we were all just hanging out.

At first I didnt talk to her much, wanted to act uninterested, yet still show that i was very confident and outspoken (easy when you're with your friends). When I eventually go and start conversation, she tells me early on that she's into "black guys" and finds them so attractive, so I use this for some c+f lines saying something like "Yeah ofcourse you're saying you're into black guys now that u've met me, what can i say?". And she'd say something like "yeah you're a cutie".

Throughout the night I kept negging her and making it seem as though I was qualifying HER and it really showed because she constantly was asking me what I thought of her ass and stomach. When other guys in the room would say it looks GREAT id say "its aiight, your stomach isnt TOO big" while smirking, and her jaw would drop while she'd say "You think its somewhat big??! aww!". And id just laugh and say "you're ok, dont worry". When a few other guys in the room would say something like "You're so beautiful!" she would respond "How am i beautiful!??!" and id blurt out "Yeah, same thing IM OVER HERE wondering!".

I also used some things which made it seem like she was the aggressor like told in the bible. Well actually quite a few times she was the aggressor like grabbing my ass, at which point id use borrowed material :) and say "What is this? a petting zoo? who told you that you could feel me up girl". She'd say "you know you liked it" and id respond "dont flatter urself". There were just a buncha AFCs there who were trying to get with her but going about it all wrong, I wasnt worried at all. At one point after a c+f comment by me, she grabs me by the hand takes me into another room and i say "what are u mad at me or something lol" and she says "no, ill prove it" and we start making out. I had friends of mine in the room overhearing some of the C+F stuff i was saying to her and then they'd say out loud "YEAH THATS HOW U TALK TO THEM!". Like when she'd ask me to put my phone number into her phone id tell her im not that easy and i'm not sure if i want to do that. I ended up getting her to do a dance for me and my friends on the table and she was saying stuff like "You should be happy! Normally guys pay to see this" and id respond saying "no.. YOU should be happy that you get to be here with me in the first place ;)". This girl was a freak too... i guess the booze and her personality just got it all out. She made out with her girl while naked just for me and some friends, was a pretty cool night.

Basically i started out with interesting convo, started neggingi her, qualifying her, and applying C+F and saying other things which made it seem like she's gonna have to work hard for MY attention. An example is when she'd tell me to slap her ass and i say "No thats ok, i think u'd enjoy that too much.. woudlnt want to give you the pleasure just yet". I ended up hooking up with her that night, everything just seemed to work out nicely.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Porky

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good for you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ShizamDaMan

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Nicely done man. All the AFC's and RAFC's could learn a thing from this post :D
 

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Great field report, bro. You've gamed her well...strippers have to chase you and quailfy themselves to you for you to get them and you did a good job. I like your petting zoo response.
 
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