"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Field Report: Jenny

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At approximately 8 pm, 5/18/05, one half blotter of LSD was taken orally.

I want to write about my experiences with Jenny, a girl who lives in my dorm. The first two times that I had seen Jenny, we held a comfortable eye contact as we walked past each other in opposite directions.

On our third encounter, I engaged her in conversation. I maintained a funny attitude and smiled a lot. It went very well. It was at this time that I had learned that she lived in a room just down the hall. Instead of asking for her number, I told her that I’d be seeing her around.

I talked to her again tonight. I can’t recall precisely what was said, but know that the basic elements were there. The small talk that we made was focused on her and what she was doing. I asked her if she’d like to hang out sometime and got the number. xxx-xxx-xxxx.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Jay Reimenschneider
At approximately 8 pm, 5/18/05, one half blotter of LSD was taken orally.

I want to write about my experiences with Jenny, a girl who lives in my dorm. The first two times that I had seen Jenny, we held a comfortable eye contact as we walked past each other in opposite directions.

On our third encounter, I engaged her in conversation. I maintained a funny attitude and smiled a lot. It went very well. It was at this time that I had learned that she lived in a room just down the hall. Instead of asking for her number, I told her that I’d be seeing her around.

I talked to her again tonight. I can’t recall precisely what was said, but know that the basic elements were there. The small talk that we made was focused on her and what she was doing. I asked her if she’d like to hang out sometime and got the number. xxx-xxx-xxxx.
Alright Hunter,
What in the hell does a half dose of acid give you. Oh yeah, nothing. Not that I'm condoning drug use here. So she has a single room and you have the number. ****ing great. You gonna try to act like your freaking out like a fat samoan attorney later and pull a knife. Maybe a little white rabbit in the bathtub, I dont know. Yeah great seriously from the tone of your post you got nothing accomplished that led you anywhere without the courage of a drug you aren't actually experiencing. Hold off and try to **** her while she and you are sober than post about it.
 

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Yer, so what did the LSD do for you brother? Nothing?
 

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I thought LSD meant only one thing- Limited slip differential.... :D ..sorry..but i couldnt hold back..
 
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