Long post so bear with me.
Friend invites me to his bday party. I get there and it's a bunch of gay guys (this is Hollywood after all) and one girl (7) so I thought it'd be good practice. BUT I went AFC since it was my friend's bday and asked him if he was gonna go for it. I really didn't want to c-block him. He says whatever happens happens no hard feelings.
I introduced myself to everyone, made conversation and established social proof. She came up to me and introduced herself. I ignored her for a little while then I made a joke to get her attention. We talked a bit and flirted for a couple minutes. After that I excused myself to talk to some other people.
After a while they cranked the music and I did a little breakdancing to demonstrate value. She complimented me and again we talked and filrted for a while. Eventually I isolate her outside while she's smoking and stand close to her, it was cold so she leaned into me. Was going for a kiss close when the people from inside came out and she said we should go inside.
We danced a bit, grinded and she told me she was on molly. So, I kissed her neck a bit to try and pump her buying temp and after a moment she pulled away very slowly and I did the same making sure to ignore it. We grinded some more and decided to exchange #'s, so like an idiot I pulled out my phone to add me on fbook but she saw my tinder app which was up with a girls profile pic. Still got her # so it wasn't a big deal. Since I had to be up semi-early I said I have to go and asked if she was staying, she said yeah so I bounced.
Obviously some really dumb mistakes were made like having that app open, I should have gone for a 2nd kiss close, and I could have phrased my close attempt to get her home better, anything else I can improve on? What's a better way to bring the conversation around to getting the two of us out of there? How should I follow up?
Friend invites me to his bday party. I get there and it's a bunch of gay guys (this is Hollywood after all) and one girl (7) so I thought it'd be good practice. BUT I went AFC since it was my friend's bday and asked him if he was gonna go for it. I really didn't want to c-block him. He says whatever happens happens no hard feelings.
I introduced myself to everyone, made conversation and established social proof. She came up to me and introduced herself. I ignored her for a little while then I made a joke to get her attention. We talked a bit and flirted for a couple minutes. After that I excused myself to talk to some other people.
After a while they cranked the music and I did a little breakdancing to demonstrate value. She complimented me and again we talked and filrted for a while. Eventually I isolate her outside while she's smoking and stand close to her, it was cold so she leaned into me. Was going for a kiss close when the people from inside came out and she said we should go inside.
We danced a bit, grinded and she told me she was on molly. So, I kissed her neck a bit to try and pump her buying temp and after a moment she pulled away very slowly and I did the same making sure to ignore it. We grinded some more and decided to exchange #'s, so like an idiot I pulled out my phone to add me on fbook but she saw my tinder app which was up with a girls profile pic. Still got her # so it wasn't a big deal. Since I had to be up semi-early I said I have to go and asked if she was staying, she said yeah so I bounced.
Obviously some really dumb mistakes were made like having that app open, I should have gone for a 2nd kiss close, and I could have phrased my close attempt to get her home better, anything else I can improve on? What's a better way to bring the conversation around to getting the two of us out of there? How should I follow up?
