sosuave213
Senior Don Juan
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I've been reading an article about how she knows your confidence is real or fake.
It's a long but informative article so it's been taking a few days but it's been making a lot of sense.
One thing I did before reading that article was go on a date where I mentioned twice in passing, after facts she got wrong about me and things she thought I'd do her but wouldn't, the following comment:
"Wrong guy."
At first she glanced with a seductive look, smiled and said, "Maybe." The second time she would wink at me afterwards.
She proceeded to go colder afterwards because I misplayed this situation by attempting to seek her approval in the most subtle fashion: Overpursuing with more kino.
It wasn't too bad because I was able to make another date with her, one where she's coming over to cook dinner with me. However...
Men as mentioned in that article will demonstrate AFC behavior by chasing more in reaction to her ever-changing moods.
Let's create those moods by saying outrageous things an AFC would never say.
That includes assuming other men are in the picture.
This works because Chad's, Don Juan's and Casanovas would never worry about her dating other men.
There is no other man, and if there were, they quickly drop off because they naturally exhibit AFC behavior over time. Easy come, easy go.
By creating these situations, she gets stirred up and wants to test you - and will begin to test you. However, you have the upper hand because you are expecting this behavior. Weather the storm (of tests) and ssh'll be putty. (That's an IT pun, but I digress...)
Feel free to add other things a Chad would say that an AFC wouldn't, because an AFC couldn't imagine and handle such a scenario such as her dating other guys when you're not around; and where a Chad wouldn't worry because, well, he's Chad.
It's a long but informative article so it's been taking a few days but it's been making a lot of sense.
One thing I did before reading that article was go on a date where I mentioned twice in passing, after facts she got wrong about me and things she thought I'd do her but wouldn't, the following comment:
"Wrong guy."
At first she glanced with a seductive look, smiled and said, "Maybe." The second time she would wink at me afterwards.
She proceeded to go colder afterwards because I misplayed this situation by attempting to seek her approval in the most subtle fashion: Overpursuing with more kino.
It wasn't too bad because I was able to make another date with her, one where she's coming over to cook dinner with me. However...
Men as mentioned in that article will demonstrate AFC behavior by chasing more in reaction to her ever-changing moods.
Let's create those moods by saying outrageous things an AFC would never say.
That includes assuming other men are in the picture.
This works because Chad's, Don Juan's and Casanovas would never worry about her dating other men.
There is no other man, and if there were, they quickly drop off because they naturally exhibit AFC behavior over time. Easy come, easy go.
By creating these situations, she gets stirred up and wants to test you - and will begin to test you. However, you have the upper hand because you are expecting this behavior. Weather the storm (of tests) and ssh'll be putty. (That's an IT pun, but I digress...)
Feel free to add other things a Chad would say that an AFC wouldn't, because an AFC couldn't imagine and handle such a scenario such as her dating other guys when you're not around; and where a Chad wouldn't worry because, well, he's Chad.
