"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Field Report Gone BAD!!!

Ak89

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Today was a fuvked up day omg i feel like just giving up.

I've finnally had the courage to start reading the DJ bible and today i've seen my cousin's friend who i liked from a long time. We haven't seen each other in a very long time so when my cousin had called me she told me that her friend HB8 said "hi".

So few mins later they end up coming by my house where me and my boy cousin (AMOG) was playing Ninja Gaiden. hb7.5/8 and my cousin are there looking at my CD's and playing music.

Few mins later HB8 and my boy cousin end up play fighting on my couch. (There are pillows and covers on couch) My dumb ass just sitting there watching them play fight and playing games. After i went to the computer and went on AIm. (My parents had just left)

So she then comes wraps her arms around me and saying for me to protect her. My dumbass just keeps typing on AIM and telling her to get off of me.

I then try to get her off of me in process got some heavy kino. (my hands were almost in her pants) After my cousin is moving the girls pocket book. An he seen some condoms and stuff. My cousin then leaves the room to go find my girl cousin that was with HB8.

So it was just me and her and i didnt saying sh!t to her. Man i know if i had done something with her to make her get in a sexual mood that i would have got a BJ or something. But i didnt even attempt to talk.

1 hour later

My cousin comes back and i turned around she was on his Fuvking lap and ****. I was like o well i guess she won't be talking to me. I then fell into the nice guy she asked for my hoody i gave it to her. She needed me to burn a cd for her i did it.

She then left saying bye only to my cousin lmao.


I feel so much like a damn AFC for nothing doing SH!t that i must read the DJ bible and i will have some fuvking success. I'm now finding out that i'm actually seen as a good looking guy. So give me a few more months i will have some great Field Reports
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RaMar

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don't appologize

ack don't appologize for not "playing with her" that will only make you look like more of an afc
 

TyTe`EyEs

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You didn't even show any interest in the girl.

Take an example from your cousin, he got the C+F going, got in some kino, and he got away from her.

C+F = Gets the girl's interest level up.

Kino = Shows the girl that you're a sexual being and gets the interest level up even higher.

Getting away = After all this attention, you take it away, making her want it back.

Live and learn brother.
 
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