"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Field Report Gone BAD!!!

Ak89

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Today was a fuvked up day omg i feel like just giving up.

I've finnally had the courage to start reading the DJ bible and today i've seen my cousin's friend who i liked from a long time. We haven't seen each other in a very long time so when my cousin had called me she told me that her friend HB8 said "hi".

So few mins later they end up coming by my house where me and my boy cousin (AMOG) was playing Ninja Gaiden. hb7.5/8 and my cousin are there looking at my CD's and playing music.

Few mins later HB8 and my boy cousin end up play fighting on my couch. (There are pillows and covers on couch) My dumb ass just sitting there watching them play fight and playing games. After i went to the computer and went on AIm. (My parents had just left)

So she then comes wraps her arms around me and saying for me to protect her. My dumbass just keeps typing on AIM and telling her to get off of me.

I then try to get her off of me in process got some heavy kino. (my hands were almost in her pants) After my cousin is moving the girls pocket book. An he seen some condoms and stuff. My cousin then leaves the room to go find my girl cousin that was with HB8.

So it was just me and her and i didnt saying sh!t to her. Man i know if i had done something with her to make her get in a sexual mood that i would have got a BJ or something. But i didnt even attempt to talk.

1 hour later

My cousin comes back and i turned around she was on his Fuvking lap and ****. I was like o well i guess she won't be talking to me. I then fell into the nice guy she asked for my hoody i gave it to her. She needed me to burn a cd for her i did it.

She then left saying bye only to my cousin lmao.


I feel so much like a damn AFC for nothing doing SH!t that i must read the DJ bible and i will have some fuvking success. I'm now finding out that i'm actually seen as a good looking guy. So give me a few more months i will have some great Field Reports
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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RaMar

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don't appologize

ack don't appologize for not "playing with her" that will only make you look like more of an afc
 

TyTe`EyEs

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You didn't even show any interest in the girl.

Take an example from your cousin, he got the C+F going, got in some kino, and he got away from her.

C+F = Gets the girl's interest level up.

Kino = Shows the girl that you're a sexual being and gets the interest level up even higher.

Getting away = After all this attention, you take it away, making her want it back.

Live and learn brother.
 
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