Went out with four women this week.I am exhausted! Made out with all four women, twenty minutes into each date. Two of them ended in sex. I met them all on Bumble. Two in NYC and the others just outside of the city. If you guys are having a hard time getting matches, I suggest you move closer to a major city. I was pulling in 6-7's living in the suburbs, but now that I am closer to the city, I match with 7-9's, I dont even respond to some women because I get so many matches and im probably a 7 in looks and an 8 in body. I now know how it feels to be a woman on OLD, it can be a little overwhelming.
Anyway, I now go for the kiss mid date, no more waiting until the end of the date. Some of the guys on here had it right.
All four dates went like this,
Me: Hey, how was your day today?
Her: work blah blah blah
Me: So tell me, what do you like to do for fun? Tell me something exciting, not the same old stuff people always say.
Her: she smiles and she says I dono, then starts listing things.
Me: what kind of movies do you like?
Her: blah blah blah
Me: Do you like horror movies?
Her: some said yes, some said no
Me: Do you believe in ghosts/spirits?
Her: yes, I believe there might be some sort of "energy" blah blah
Me: Ever been to a psychic?
Her: Yes, how about you?
Me: Yes, I tell them a quick story how the psychic kept saying it doesnt look good for me, I grab her hand, showed her how the pychic read my palm
Her: she laughs
Me: Do you believe in the "one" "soulmate"
Her: Nope
Me: Do you believe everything happens for a reason?
Her: Sometimes
Me: so, If I was to kiss you right now do you think....( I go in for the kiss and have success!)
If she says something that we dont have in common or is weird, I playfully shake her hand and tell her it was nice meeting you but look at the time, pretend I am leaving.
4 for 4 with this type of dialogue but you need to be animated when you are talking. Simple but effective if the attraction is there.
Anyway, I now go for the kiss mid date, no more waiting until the end of the date. Some of the guys on here had it right.
All four dates went like this,
Me: Hey, how was your day today?
Her: work blah blah blah
Me: So tell me, what do you like to do for fun? Tell me something exciting, not the same old stuff people always say.
Her: she smiles and she says I dono, then starts listing things.
Me: what kind of movies do you like?
Her: blah blah blah
Me: Do you like horror movies?
Her: some said yes, some said no
Me: Do you believe in ghosts/spirits?
Her: yes, I believe there might be some sort of "energy" blah blah
Me: Ever been to a psychic?
Her: Yes, how about you?
Me: Yes, I tell them a quick story how the psychic kept saying it doesnt look good for me, I grab her hand, showed her how the pychic read my palm
Her: she laughs
Me: Do you believe in the "one" "soulmate"
Her: Nope
Me: Do you believe everything happens for a reason?
Her: Sometimes
Me: so, If I was to kiss you right now do you think....( I go in for the kiss and have success!)
If she says something that we dont have in common or is weird, I playfully shake her hand and tell her it was nice meeting you but look at the time, pretend I am leaving.
4 for 4 with this type of dialogue but you need to be animated when you are talking. Simple but effective if the attraction is there.
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