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field report for the parking lot

00Kevin

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I would like to report on something new I've been doing with my dates.

After a simple date take her out to your car. Drive around for a coffee or something and then find an out of the way spot to park.

After about an hour of good conversation offer to give her a back massage. You may not realize this, but such a simple thing can really turn a girl on. Especially if you focus on her neck. It also breaks the ice a bit and allows you to go further. This is major KINO and no girl can resist the touch of strong hands.

It is also true that girls love making out in your car. It is also a private place to talk about anything.

Now, I make sure all my dates end up in my car late at night in the middle of the parking lot. This is my new objective and it is all that is on my mind during the entire date.

I can report that I've had BJs almost every night for the past 2 weeks doing this! The only mistake I made at first was to forget to adjust the steering wheel. You don't want that car horn going off when she bangs her head on it.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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jakethasnake

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
It is also true that girls love making out in your car. It is also a private place to talk about anything.

Now, I make sure all my dates end up in my car late at night in the middle of the parking lot. This is my new objective and it is all that is on my mind during the entire date.

I can report that I've had BJs almost every night for the past 2 weeks doing this! The only mistake I made at first was to forget to adjust the steering wheel. You don't want that car horn going off when she bangs her head on it.


So you're using the parking lot as a tool for getting women into a sexual state? Are you serious? I suppose the "massage" is also a big part of it. But I don't think the parking lot thing will work by itself - the massage part is what gets her into sexual state, not the parking garage. I mean, can you imagine this:


You pull into parking garage. You park in a stall, turn off engine. It's dark and silent.


Her: Uh... what are we doing here?
You: Suck it.
Her: What?!?
You: ....... just suck it, aiight??

*SLAP*


:D


And by the way if you've been getting head from 14 different girls in the past 14 days, that has totally deserves the 'Male Slut of the Month' award. :p Props. You can't be serious though, right?
 

00Kevin

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Although I find your response very funny :) I think you are blowing things out of context.

I would say that I'm using the parking lot, my car, kino, and the stars the night sky (though my sun roof) to get action. I think it is a combination of many things that allow this to happen. most girls like fooling around in a car and they like good conversation.

But yes... I've had regular BJ's now . I don't know how long this will last but these girls love making out in my car.

And for the record I've only done this with 4 girls and each one has put out. One girl does it every single time I go out with her.
Last night she BJed for a good hour. I sucked her nipples every few mins while she took breaks.

Lastly, I've realized that one of the bigest problems with dates is that everything is done in public. You can only do so much in public and talk about so much in public. When you sit in a car this changes things. Your still out in public (ie the parking lot of a mall) but you can get away with soooo much more.
 

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I know I'm new here, blah blah blah.

But really a field report should go over all the emotional build ups*. The ups and downs. The mistakes and the saves. The words and vibes that were sent (the important ones), so we know where you are coming from.

From what I understand, you meet at coffee. Rub neck. Go to car which is far away. Talk. Get head.

I wish it were that easy, but I have to give off the right vibes, get an emotional connection through sending the right positive energy. Possibly C/F etc etc etc. Lots of stuff. Personally I have never gotten head in a car on a first date so I'd like to know what you did!!

Maybe I should get my own car first, but whatever. I probably won't have a car until after college which is in 4-5 years. Anyway, back you to 00Kevin.


*Otherwise it is just like a "tips" thread. Right?
 

jakethasnake

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cannibustacap,

Jesus, how do you survive in LA without your own car? That sucks - I'm sorry.



Kevin,


Dude, I'll take you for your word. I'm not doubting that you had your dyck sucked - I'm just doubting that you had it sucked by 14 different girls in 14 nights. Thanks for clearing that up. By the way, what do you drive? Sometimes the right ride can 'miraculously' turn a girl into a ravenous cack-sucker. LOL - for realz!
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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