"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Field Report : first date

AlexTheGreat

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Alright, I just got done with this girl, hb7.5 I'd say, first date :D Everything went soooo smoothly I can't believe it actually happened like this !


So, to start it off, a bit of background. She's a girl from my school, not in any of my classes. Anyways, we had this planned for a few days, but I went camping for the weekend so we didn't talk. Yesterday night, at like 9h00 PM, she calls me, and confirms that she can go to the date (her parents are real strict). So, today, I meet her at 11 AM, at the shopping mall (she "went shopping with friends" ;)), and I bring her back home. I arrived on the spot late, but so did she (and she arrived even later lol).

On the way from the bus station, I pass my arm around her waist, and after a few minutes, so does she. We arrive at my place, and I show her around a bit. Afterwards, we go downstairs, and I put on "Donnie Darko". We're both on the couch, watching, talking, making comments and just randomly laughing. After a bit, I start touching her more .... take her hand, caress her leg, her tummy. I put my hand behind her back, and she comes closer to me. Half an hour into the movie, we move from the couch to the ground in front of it... and as time progresses, we come closer and closer. So, I start smelling her hair, caressing her, touching her... and I move down, from hair, to neck, and start kissing gently... I start kissing her, and it transforms into a complete make out session, right there on the ground.

And, throughout the movie, we had like 5 of these sessions .. :D And as time advanced, the more intimite they were. I was feeling her up at the end, and received absolutely no complaint, only positive feedback.

We didn't do anything more "ôsé" than that, since the farthest both of us had gotten was to make out. (her parents are REALLy strict so they don't let her do anything). So after the movie ended, she had to leave (her "shopping" time was over ;)), and I led her back to the bus station, that's like 7 minutes away from my place. On the way, I start by taking her by the waist, then we just hold hands. And, once the bus arrived a few minutes later, SHE kissed ME in public (first time this arrived in public :woo: ), and we parted.

Anyways, this is officially a marchstone for me, since I was always terrorrised of kissing on the first date. Not this time : I knew what I wanted, and got it. She was really cool the whole time, so the entire date went great ! Unfortunately, we're both really busy for the rest of the summer (she's going to her grandmother soon, then going on a trip ; and I have a trip for the whole of July, so we could see each other only at the end of the summer...)

But, this is all just to say that I'm really proud of this date :D The best I've had for now ! So, thank you guys for teaching me the ways of the DJ .... I think I am pretty knowledgeable in the skill, so thank you all ! Today wouldn't have been without you guys.

One last thing .... how do you cure blue balls ?:crackup: :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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UltimateScoundrel

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Congrats. You are officially my hero. I'm proud of any guy that hooks up with a girl by keeping it simple and being cool. You did just that my friend.
 

LikRetsam

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:cheer:
 

Phat

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Nice job man. Excellent.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stratocaster

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Your post sounded like one of those sex novels lol.

Tickling is good. Use it. Especially while you are making out. Makes it more interesting.
 
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