"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Field Report : first date

AlexTheGreat

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Alright, I just got done with this girl, hb7.5 I'd say, first date :D Everything went soooo smoothly I can't believe it actually happened like this !


So, to start it off, a bit of background. She's a girl from my school, not in any of my classes. Anyways, we had this planned for a few days, but I went camping for the weekend so we didn't talk. Yesterday night, at like 9h00 PM, she calls me, and confirms that she can go to the date (her parents are real strict). So, today, I meet her at 11 AM, at the shopping mall (she "went shopping with friends" ;)), and I bring her back home. I arrived on the spot late, but so did she (and she arrived even later lol).

On the way from the bus station, I pass my arm around her waist, and after a few minutes, so does she. We arrive at my place, and I show her around a bit. Afterwards, we go downstairs, and I put on "Donnie Darko". We're both on the couch, watching, talking, making comments and just randomly laughing. After a bit, I start touching her more .... take her hand, caress her leg, her tummy. I put my hand behind her back, and she comes closer to me. Half an hour into the movie, we move from the couch to the ground in front of it... and as time progresses, we come closer and closer. So, I start smelling her hair, caressing her, touching her... and I move down, from hair, to neck, and start kissing gently... I start kissing her, and it transforms into a complete make out session, right there on the ground.

And, throughout the movie, we had like 5 of these sessions .. :D And as time advanced, the more intimite they were. I was feeling her up at the end, and received absolutely no complaint, only positive feedback.

We didn't do anything more "ôsé" than that, since the farthest both of us had gotten was to make out. (her parents are REALLy strict so they don't let her do anything). So after the movie ended, she had to leave (her "shopping" time was over ;)), and I led her back to the bus station, that's like 7 minutes away from my place. On the way, I start by taking her by the waist, then we just hold hands. And, once the bus arrived a few minutes later, SHE kissed ME in public (first time this arrived in public :woo: ), and we parted.

Anyways, this is officially a marchstone for me, since I was always terrorrised of kissing on the first date. Not this time : I knew what I wanted, and got it. She was really cool the whole time, so the entire date went great ! Unfortunately, we're both really busy for the rest of the summer (she's going to her grandmother soon, then going on a trip ; and I have a trip for the whole of July, so we could see each other only at the end of the summer...)

But, this is all just to say that I'm really proud of this date :D The best I've had for now ! So, thank you guys for teaching me the ways of the DJ .... I think I am pretty knowledgeable in the skill, so thank you all ! Today wouldn't have been without you guys.

One last thing .... how do you cure blue balls ?:crackup: :confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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UltimateScoundrel

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Congrats. You are officially my hero. I'm proud of any guy that hooks up with a girl by keeping it simple and being cool. You did just that my friend.
 

LikRetsam

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:cheer:
 

Phat

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Nice job man. Excellent.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Stratocaster

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Your post sounded like one of those sex novels lol.

Tickling is good. Use it. Especially while you are making out. Makes it more interesting.
 
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