“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So.....I dumped my LTR and I'm back on match. Had a few dates but this one was unique.
I told her to wear something sexy. She responded with shall I wear panties? I said no and wear a skirt. I met her at the bar and I ran my hand down her back to her ass. A little small talk and she said she was very sexual. I ran my hand up her thigh and touched her p ussy with the tip of my finger. I put her hand on my co ck and she rubbed me. I kept alternating between her a ss and p ussy.

She gasped and said it was nice. Within ten minutes I was fingering her and on the verge of making her ***. Anyway 10 more minutes I said lets go to my place. She said yes. So within 30 minutes I was banging her in the as s and making her choke on my c ock.

It was a very entertaining evening. You can do it to. I'm nothing special.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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what the h3ll? Maybe I need to get on match instead, lol.. how much did you text and stuff before? Feel like my OLD has been seriously lacking making new connections.
 

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In my younger years I could never grasp banging a stranger. Until it actually happened.
And then it happened again.

Guys they live in the fvcking moment, it's as simple as that. They are vampires, if they have been dumped recently or ended something etc. It's GAME ON just like Dust described. End of a marriage they will fvck 10 just for fun.

OP just out of curiosity what state do you live in?

I've done this with a gf/plate, wear something sexy etc. Thanks for the encouragement Dust I'm trying this out in the near future.
 

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I love field rapports like these instead of those keyboard jockey ''DJs'' who never get booked for a show. Keep up the good work boss. Massive support. Escalate quick, be the guy who does that instead of the whiners and orbiters who dream of it. Do it like NIKE.
 

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what the h3ll? Maybe I need to get on match instead, lol.. how much did you text and stuff before? Feel like my OLD has been seriously lacking making new connections.
Very few texts. I kept it to a minimum. You should try match. I have had good luck with it.
 

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Update....She sent me a text that she didn't want to see me again. That she wanted someone that would commit. I guess I didn't give off a commitment vibe. Oh well, plenty more women to be had.
 

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Update....She sent me a text that she didn't want to see me again. That she wanted someone that would commit. I guess I didn't give off a commitment vibe. Oh well, plenty more women to be had.
Haha. you got used!

I guess that's maybe why sex on a first date isn't always good.
 

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Update....She sent me a text that she didn't want to see me again. That she wanted someone that would commit. I guess I didn't give off a commitment vibe. Oh well, plenty more women to be had.
Tell her that you like her, that she is seeing it wrong and see what her reaction will be. Give it time again and ask her out in about a couple days if she blows you off again move on.

Her ASD is kicking in and some girls react heavily, words are sh1t.
 

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Tell her that you like her, that she is seeing it wrong and see what her reaction will be. Give it time again and ask her out in about a couple days if she blows you off again move on.

Her ASD is kicking in and some girls react heavily, words are sh1t.
That text about commitment was last night. Just got another text where she said her t its and neck hurt and she liked it. I slapped those boobs pretty hard and gave her a hickey or two. Plus I pinched and twisted those nipples pretty ruthlessly.

I will reply in a bit and tell her to come over Tuesday. Thoughts?
 

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That text about commitment was last night. Just got another text where she said her t its and neck hurt and she liked it. I slapped those boobs pretty hard and gave her a hickey or two. Plus I pinched and twisted those nipples pretty ruthlessly.

I will reply in a bit and tell her to come over Tuesday. Thoughts?
Don't act too aloof, she's probably an emotional type trying figure out where you stand with her. She doesn't want to be pumped and dumped and feeling used. I would be nice, sweet and simple towards her in your communication and suggest too have drinks or go for dinner or so.

I made the mistake of kissing another girl after 2 great first dates with my last real fling and she blowed me off when I suggested her to come over (she knew that would end up in cex+ she's seeing another guy too).

Proceed with caution, don't give her the idea your only want to f8ck her. Just do something for fun and escalate on the date again where you'll take her home.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't act too aloof, she's probably an emotional type trying figure out where you stand with her. She doesn't want to be pumped and dumped and feeling used. I would be nice, sweet and simple towards her in your communication and suggest too have drinks or go for dinner or so.

I made the mistake of kissing another girl after 2 great first dates with my last real fling and she blowed me off when I suggested her to come over (she knew that would end up in cex+ she's seeing another guy too).

Proceed with caution, don't give her the idea your only want to f8ck her. Just do something for fun and escalate on the date again where you'll take her home.
Ok I did as you suggested. Will see what happens.
 

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Second date with her tonight. If you could call it a date. She has texted me how horny she is for me and she wants to just come over and f uck. I will be more than happy to accommodate her. Anyway there was some se xting. I tried to keep it at a minimum. She initiated the s exting. Will be more t it slapping, nipple biting, a ss spanking and other stuff. She likes it rough. She is fun.
 

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Update....She sent me a text that she didn't want to see me again. That she wanted someone that would commit. I guess I didn't give off a commitment vibe. Oh well, plenty more women to be had.
Isn't it just tediculous how women act these days? First night lay and then they disappear stating they want someone to committ to them....lol.

Commit to them so they can use sex as a weapon against you and complain and you have to listen to it. Personally the more and more women I hear that flat out tell you they want commitment early into dating, I start to think they're the crazy ones not worth committing to.

High value women are always looking for a decent high value guy, it's always implied I feel and she shouldn't even have to say it. I'm back in school and lots of hot 19-23 year olds. Listening to social dynamics is way more fun now and reading the subtext. Some hear may say all 21 year old want the **** carousel, but the subtext of the recent girls I've all talked to is they want that hot stud that's interesting and fun. Not a 6 pack or football player, but the fun mysterious brooding guy. They want to lock him down. Most of these 21 year old girls are all complaining about their lives, but really they're scared ****less. They don't have that rock in their life besides dad yet and they're yearning for even just a little alpha behavior and it'll set em off.

Anyways, my rants done
 

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F ucked her long and hard. Was rough made her *** when she didnt want to.....She says she loves me.....
 
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