"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Field Report First Date

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So.....I dumped my LTR and I'm back on match. Had a few dates but this one was unique.
I told her to wear something sexy. She responded with shall I wear panties? I said no and wear a skirt. I met her at the bar and I ran my hand down her back to her ass. A little small talk and she said she was very sexual. I ran my hand up her thigh and touched her p ussy with the tip of my finger. I put her hand on my co ck and she rubbed me. I kept alternating between her a ss and p ussy.

She gasped and said it was nice. Within ten minutes I was fingering her and on the verge of making her ***. Anyway 10 more minutes I said lets go to my place. She said yes. So within 30 minutes I was banging her in the as s and making her choke on my c ock.

It was a very entertaining evening. You can do it to. I'm nothing special.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what the h3ll? Maybe I need to get on match instead, lol.. how much did you text and stuff before? Feel like my OLD has been seriously lacking making new connections.
 

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In my younger years I could never grasp banging a stranger. Until it actually happened.
And then it happened again.

Guys they live in the fvcking moment, it's as simple as that. They are vampires, if they have been dumped recently or ended something etc. It's GAME ON just like Dust described. End of a marriage they will fvck 10 just for fun.

OP just out of curiosity what state do you live in?

I've done this with a gf/plate, wear something sexy etc. Thanks for the encouragement Dust I'm trying this out in the near future.
 

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I love field rapports like these instead of those keyboard jockey ''DJs'' who never get booked for a show. Keep up the good work boss. Massive support. Escalate quick, be the guy who does that instead of the whiners and orbiters who dream of it. Do it like NIKE.
 

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what the h3ll? Maybe I need to get on match instead, lol.. how much did you text and stuff before? Feel like my OLD has been seriously lacking making new connections.
Very few texts. I kept it to a minimum. You should try match. I have had good luck with it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Update....She sent me a text that she didn't want to see me again. That she wanted someone that would commit. I guess I didn't give off a commitment vibe. Oh well, plenty more women to be had.
 

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Update....She sent me a text that she didn't want to see me again. That she wanted someone that would commit. I guess I didn't give off a commitment vibe. Oh well, plenty more women to be had.
Haha. you got used!

I guess that's maybe why sex on a first date isn't always good.
 

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Update....She sent me a text that she didn't want to see me again. That she wanted someone that would commit. I guess I didn't give off a commitment vibe. Oh well, plenty more women to be had.
Tell her that you like her, that she is seeing it wrong and see what her reaction will be. Give it time again and ask her out in about a couple days if she blows you off again move on.

Her ASD is kicking in and some girls react heavily, words are sh1t.
 

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Tell her that you like her, that she is seeing it wrong and see what her reaction will be. Give it time again and ask her out in about a couple days if she blows you off again move on.

Her ASD is kicking in and some girls react heavily, words are sh1t.
That text about commitment was last night. Just got another text where she said her t its and neck hurt and she liked it. I slapped those boobs pretty hard and gave her a hickey or two. Plus I pinched and twisted those nipples pretty ruthlessly.

I will reply in a bit and tell her to come over Tuesday. Thoughts?
 

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That text about commitment was last night. Just got another text where she said her t its and neck hurt and she liked it. I slapped those boobs pretty hard and gave her a hickey or two. Plus I pinched and twisted those nipples pretty ruthlessly.

I will reply in a bit and tell her to come over Tuesday. Thoughts?
Don't act too aloof, she's probably an emotional type trying figure out where you stand with her. She doesn't want to be pumped and dumped and feeling used. I would be nice, sweet and simple towards her in your communication and suggest too have drinks or go for dinner or so.

I made the mistake of kissing another girl after 2 great first dates with my last real fling and she blowed me off when I suggested her to come over (she knew that would end up in cex+ she's seeing another guy too).

Proceed with caution, don't give her the idea your only want to f8ck her. Just do something for fun and escalate on the date again where you'll take her home.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't act too aloof, she's probably an emotional type trying figure out where you stand with her. She doesn't want to be pumped and dumped and feeling used. I would be nice, sweet and simple towards her in your communication and suggest too have drinks or go for dinner or so.

I made the mistake of kissing another girl after 2 great first dates with my last real fling and she blowed me off when I suggested her to come over (she knew that would end up in cex+ she's seeing another guy too).

Proceed with caution, don't give her the idea your only want to f8ck her. Just do something for fun and escalate on the date again where you'll take her home.
Ok I did as you suggested. Will see what happens.
 

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Second date with her tonight. If you could call it a date. She has texted me how horny she is for me and she wants to just come over and f uck. I will be more than happy to accommodate her. Anyway there was some se xting. I tried to keep it at a minimum. She initiated the s exting. Will be more t it slapping, nipple biting, a ss spanking and other stuff. She likes it rough. She is fun.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Update....She sent me a text that she didn't want to see me again. That she wanted someone that would commit. I guess I didn't give off a commitment vibe. Oh well, plenty more women to be had.
Isn't it just tediculous how women act these days? First night lay and then they disappear stating they want someone to committ to them....lol.

Commit to them so they can use sex as a weapon against you and complain and you have to listen to it. Personally the more and more women I hear that flat out tell you they want commitment early into dating, I start to think they're the crazy ones not worth committing to.

High value women are always looking for a decent high value guy, it's always implied I feel and she shouldn't even have to say it. I'm back in school and lots of hot 19-23 year olds. Listening to social dynamics is way more fun now and reading the subtext. Some hear may say all 21 year old want the **** carousel, but the subtext of the recent girls I've all talked to is they want that hot stud that's interesting and fun. Not a 6 pack or football player, but the fun mysterious brooding guy. They want to lock him down. Most of these 21 year old girls are all complaining about their lives, but really they're scared ****less. They don't have that rock in their life besides dad yet and they're yearning for even just a little alpha behavior and it'll set em off.

Anyways, my rants done
 

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F ucked her long and hard. Was rough made her *** when she didnt want to.....She says she loves me.....
 
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