Well, I have to tell you what has happened. Today I asked the girl out that I was talking about in my other topic. I find myself in a new position as she agreed to see me sometime, this weekend if possible. You should have seen me in action, I was totally like a DJ. I was cool, confident, smooth, funny. I can tell that I was no way "wuss like." Ah, victory is sweet. Here is what I said(I'm paraphrasing),
"I was thinking about going out Saturday, you join me if you want."
It was something to that effect. The point was that I acted nonchalantly and confident. I was surprised how easy it was, once I got comfortable, it was no sweat. Once I got her alone, I eased the tention by using my "Fraturday" joke. It went over well, she laughed and I could tell that I had my opening. I waited to after class and I walked with her and another class wait to her car. The three of us had a good conversation which helped to build up my comfort level. When the other class mate left, I continued to walk her towards her car. That's when I did my joke which made me feel so good, because of her reaction. Then I closed with getting her number. She seemed really interested and even excited.
For those of you who are too afraid to ask out girls, look at my example. You really need to get used to talking to girls more and treat them like you would your best buds.
So, I got her number and plan on calling her maybe tomarrow on even possibly Friday. We'll see what happens next.
I'd like to thank all of you here for your support and your help. I really feel like I have grown much since this last year. I hope that now I can help others gain the confidence and self-esteem that they need.
Thanks again!
"I was thinking about going out Saturday, you join me if you want."
It was something to that effect. The point was that I acted nonchalantly and confident. I was surprised how easy it was, once I got comfortable, it was no sweat. Once I got her alone, I eased the tention by using my "Fraturday" joke. It went over well, she laughed and I could tell that I had my opening. I waited to after class and I walked with her and another class wait to her car. The three of us had a good conversation which helped to build up my comfort level. When the other class mate left, I continued to walk her towards her car. That's when I did my joke which made me feel so good, because of her reaction. Then I closed with getting her number. She seemed really interested and even excited.
For those of you who are too afraid to ask out girls, look at my example. You really need to get used to talking to girls more and treat them like you would your best buds.
So, I got her number and plan on calling her maybe tomarrow on even possibly Friday. We'll see what happens next.
I'd like to thank all of you here for your support and your help. I really feel like I have grown much since this last year. I hope that now I can help others gain the confidence and self-esteem that they need.
Thanks again!