Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Don't flip on me old boy. Put up or shut up.If you need money, be straight up and ask me. You don't need to machinate.
I agree with you 100%.TheProphet, the way you communicate with people will mirror how they will respond to you. If you shame or antagonize people, they will respond in like. Here is where fluidity matters.
beforeimgone has been around here for nearly 4 years…I can connect with anyone, death row prisoner or CEO of a Fortune 500. The way I would communicate with each would be vastly different, but I will likely get into the minds of both and steer them to my will. Having stated this for OP to read, now he is gone for good, lol.
Don't "ghost" on me kid. I'll be looking for the made in China lead hair piece to waltz in.I'll be there tomorrow at 9pm. Let's see if you have gonads, not internet "muscle."
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bring your hairpiece, that's fine. Just look for the hottest girl in the spot and the GQ-looking guy out of Goodfellas. Free oysters, you can't pass that up, it's better than spending a dollar per.Don't "ghost" on me kid. I'll be looking for the made in China lead hair piece to waltz in.
It's not gonads. It's a sack.
Nice try ponzi. Though that made in China lead hair piece is permeating your pea brain since you advertise hair plugs. You seem non self-aware.Bring your hairpiece, that's fine. Just look for the hottest girl in the spot and the GQ-looking guy out of Goodfellas. Free oysters, you can't pass that up, it's better than spending a dollar per.
Not $3. Free oysters for you little man. My treat. Try to keep up with the Joneses. I know Arthur Ave is bit different than the city, but I promise I won't make you feel like outcast by mentioning your SoSuave escapades, pof trolling, or hairpiece. Your secrets are safe with meNice try ponzi. Though that made in China lead hair piece is permeating your pea brain since you advertise hair plugs. You seem non self-aware.
Not free oysters lil guy. 3.00 oysters a piece for a buck. Try to keep up.
Odd a nice jewish boy would compare himself to Italians in a movie. Insecurity is leaking through your yarmulke son.
In case I happen to "miss" you do us a favor and post a pic of you inside the joint. You know. So you can prove you showed.
I'm already going.
I'll use you like a one nighter.Not $3. Free oysters for you little man. My treat. Try to keep up with the Joneses. I know Arthur Ave is bit different than the city, but I promise I won't make you feel like outcast by mentioning your SoSuave escapades, pof trolling, or hairpiece. Your secrets are safe with me![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ok Spagettihead, I'll see you tomorrowI'll use you like a one nighter.
I'd lmao and readily admit I've used SS as my downtime entertainment. Pof? Sheet. Same deal. Dudes already know the deal. Problem is you take it serious. People know I don't. You've got a net rep to uphold. Whereas I don't. Snitch all your like I'll sit there laughing at it and you. You serve as my entertainment, lead hair piece and all.
Crave fishbar kid.
9pm. Bring your folex, "9", and wig. Crave fishbar upper west.Ok Spagettihead, I'll see you tomorrow
You can't save them from me. No one canTheProspect, OP is going to do what he going to do whether on SoSuave or banned. And there will be "victims" out there regardless. Always best to help others transcend. Even if they don't immediately, sometimes "seeds" take time to grow.
Nothing he can do. If I want her ill have herI agree with you 100%.
beforeimgone has been around here for nearly 4 years…
His behaviour has not improved, this is a fact.
He is not willing to change, this is a fact.
Given the facts,
What would you do if your daughter were a victim of his behaviour?
Don't get snide with me. I defended you not to get banned.You can't save them from me.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's what the kids are calling sexual assault these days huh.?.? LolLight kino is for the timid. Bold for the gold baby
Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient. Falling under the definition of sexual assault are sexual activities as forced sexual intercourse, forcible sodomy, child molestation, incest, fondling, and attempted rape.Man, people need to get a grip. It's not "sexual assault". I had a woman grab my arse recent.
It's "sexual assault" if
a: the person really loathes the approach
b: the person is the type to call the police over any little thing
If he wants to run aggressive club game, and risk getting a punch in the face, or risk some sort of trouble, then it's his life.
Same way that people used to tell me on here that I'd get the police called on me for speaking to women in the street (which I've still never had any sort of big trouble from). We all have different thresholds, and manage our risk.
It's pearl-clutching, imo.
Personally, I love being fondled by random, hot chics myself. I'll welcome that any day of the week. The difference being consent.Then I was sexually assaulted recent.
What do you reckon I should do about it? I feel so violated.
Boo hoo.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.