beforeimgone
Master Don Juan
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Grabbed an ass. Got the number
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The wife that you mention is this thread:What wife?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol that research tho.The wife that you mention is this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/looking-for-different-perspectives.230966/
You say "I'm a married man and head of my household."
You were writing that thread, if I remember correctly, on how to control your wife so that she's at your beck
and call or something like that......
Didn't work out?
Who says I get slapped?Do you just go around grabbing asses all night and getting slapped? Hahaha. Not insulting you I was just imagining it all in my head while reading your updates and it was funny.
The overall theme seems to be you're too aggressive.
Most people start with light kino but you just go straight for the ass I guess![]()
Grabbed one. Friend pulled her away strongly lol
Grabbed one. Husband excuse. So? Tried to fvck.
Tried to slam late every chick I liked... Got a kiss she ran away when I touched her pvssy
Tried to grab one. "I got a dude" she wouldn't let me touch. Ejected
Grabbed an ass.
Men like this are creepers, socially daft, potentially dangerous and act like brutes because they don't have other tools in the tool box.I would say you'd have more perspective on the nature of your behaviour if you ever ended up having a daughter, but I'm afraid you'd probably just assault her too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lol YOU did! Ya drunkie.Who says I get slapped?
Light kino is for the timid. Bold for the gold baby
Agree 110%. After a few months of evaluating his content, I believe he promotes more harm than good. Harm that includes negative publicity to this site, toxic advice to the members of this forum, and harm to vulnerable girls who are intoxicated and/or who are afraid to stand up for themselves. To be fair, not all his content warrants extreme criticism, and some members may even find a few of his perspectives insightful and contributory (surprisingly). But when he admits to blatant sexual assault as a "strategy" to get laid, a line has to be drawn somewhere.Men like this are creepers, socially daft, potentially dangerous and act like brutes because they don't have other tools in the tool box.
As has been alluded to on some of his other threads some of his behavior (forcible sex, grabbing women without consent, etc.) is legally actionable.
He lied about being married (calling someone wife doesn't make you married), and his main girl got some self respect & left.
I'm pointing this out because to follow this guy's advice is going to land somebody in jail with an assault charge. That will screw your life right up folks. If it lands him in jail that's his problem. So understand how potentially dangerous this behavior is to you gentlemen.
Disrespectful thugs are disrespectful thugs and nothing to aspire too.
Calling it like I see it folks. Dudes like this would get booted out of our club and blackballed permanently in nothing flat by the MMA bouncers & handed over to the state troopers who worked for us off duty...although to be honest guys like this rarely had enough class to gain admission in the first place. If that didn't help them gain a little respect I assume the boyfriends in the pen would get their point across soon enough.
Very dangerous baby. Hmu sometimeMen like this are creepers, socially daft, potentially dangerous
No one has kicked my ass because I'm awesomeLol YOU did! Ya drunkie.
If I were you I'd read through all these updates you posted.
You'd think you'd learn by now that walking up to a girl and grabbing her ass is going to make them repulsed by you.
And like @BeExcellent said, you're going to get sexual assault charges at some point with this behavior.
I'm honestly surprised nobody kicked your ass in there.
I'm a badddd boy. I take what I wantAgree 110%. After a few months of evaluating his content, I believe he promotes more harm than good.
TldrLook beforeimgone, you have lots of potential. You have balls. This is great. You remind me of me when I was young. You just need to apply some fluidity in your approach, and tailor to the minds of the audience.
Clubbing them over the head and dragging them to the bathroom is no win. Getting in their minds and creating their genuine desire to want to bang your brains out is the win. Let's see you mix up your bold approaching with some Don Juan language and smooth rhetoric.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't want to see the kid get banned. He's got potential. Funny thing is you take a guy like this and let him broker on Wall Street, he will become a millionaire. But if you put him on the street, he becomes a criminal.
Sounded good until u said kid. "Nexxxxt"@beforeimgone don't listen to the haters and their white knight morals. Do YOU kid.
Naughty Ninja, what are you doing alone in NYC tonight on sosuave. Come on over to guru's palace, and I'll show you the best harems on the UES@beforeimgone don't listen to the haters and their white knight morals. Do YOU kid.
That's the spirit son. Don't take no sh1t.Sounded good until u said kid. "Nexxxxt"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.