beforeimgone
Master Don Juan
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Grabbed an ass. Got the number
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The wife that you mention is this thread:What wife?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lol that research tho.The wife that you mention is this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/looking-for-different-perspectives.230966/
You say "I'm a married man and head of my household."
You were writing that thread, if I remember correctly, on how to control your wife so that she's at your beck
and call or something like that......
Didn't work out?
Who says I get slapped?Do you just go around grabbing asses all night and getting slapped? Hahaha. Not insulting you I was just imagining it all in my head while reading your updates and it was funny.
The overall theme seems to be you're too aggressive.
Most people start with light kino but you just go straight for the ass I guess![]()
Grabbed one. Friend pulled her away strongly lol
Grabbed one. Husband excuse. So? Tried to fvck.
Tried to slam late every chick I liked... Got a kiss she ran away when I touched her pvssy
Tried to grab one. "I got a dude" she wouldn't let me touch. Ejected
Grabbed an ass.
Men like this are creepers, socially daft, potentially dangerous and act like brutes because they don't have other tools in the tool box.I would say you'd have more perspective on the nature of your behaviour if you ever ended up having a daughter, but I'm afraid you'd probably just assault her too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lol YOU did! Ya drunkie.Who says I get slapped?
Light kino is for the timid. Bold for the gold baby
Agree 110%. After a few months of evaluating his content, I believe he promotes more harm than good. Harm that includes negative publicity to this site, toxic advice to the members of this forum, and harm to vulnerable girls who are intoxicated and/or who are afraid to stand up for themselves. To be fair, not all his content warrants extreme criticism, and some members may even find a few of his perspectives insightful and contributory (surprisingly). But when he admits to blatant sexual assault as a "strategy" to get laid, a line has to be drawn somewhere.Men like this are creepers, socially daft, potentially dangerous and act like brutes because they don't have other tools in the tool box.
As has been alluded to on some of his other threads some of his behavior (forcible sex, grabbing women without consent, etc.) is legally actionable.
He lied about being married (calling someone wife doesn't make you married), and his main girl got some self respect & left.
I'm pointing this out because to follow this guy's advice is going to land somebody in jail with an assault charge. That will screw your life right up folks. If it lands him in jail that's his problem. So understand how potentially dangerous this behavior is to you gentlemen.
Disrespectful thugs are disrespectful thugs and nothing to aspire too.
Calling it like I see it folks. Dudes like this would get booted out of our club and blackballed permanently in nothing flat by the MMA bouncers & handed over to the state troopers who worked for us off duty...although to be honest guys like this rarely had enough class to gain admission in the first place. If that didn't help them gain a little respect I assume the boyfriends in the pen would get their point across soon enough.
Very dangerous baby. Hmu sometimeMen like this are creepers, socially daft, potentially dangerous
No one has kicked my ass because I'm awesomeLol YOU did! Ya drunkie.
If I were you I'd read through all these updates you posted.
You'd think you'd learn by now that walking up to a girl and grabbing her ass is going to make them repulsed by you.
And like @BeExcellent said, you're going to get sexual assault charges at some point with this behavior.
I'm honestly surprised nobody kicked your ass in there.
I'm a badddd boy. I take what I wantAgree 110%. After a few months of evaluating his content, I believe he promotes more harm than good.
TldrLook beforeimgone, you have lots of potential. You have balls. This is great. You remind me of me when I was young. You just need to apply some fluidity in your approach, and tailor to the minds of the audience.
Clubbing them over the head and dragging them to the bathroom is no win. Getting in their minds and creating their genuine desire to want to bang your brains out is the win. Let's see you mix up your bold approaching with some Don Juan language and smooth rhetoric.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't want to see the kid get banned. He's got potential. Funny thing is you take a guy like this and let him broker on Wall Street, he will become a millionaire. But if you put him on the street, he becomes a criminal.
Sounded good until u said kid. "Nexxxxt"@beforeimgone don't listen to the haters and their white knight morals. Do YOU kid.
Naughty Ninja, what are you doing alone in NYC tonight on sosuave. Come on over to guru's palace, and I'll show you the best harems on the UES@beforeimgone don't listen to the haters and their white knight morals. Do YOU kid.
That's the spirit son. Don't take no sh1t.Sounded good until u said kid. "Nexxxxt"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.