"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Field Report - Bar Crawling Pt 2

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would say you need to stop getting drunk. Being drunk is for weak people

It will help you to sarge more and avoid getting in all these fights you twit about, also girl will be more open to you
 
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Hitting the gym and then going to the mall. This will b my last update for this week then I'll leave this site alone until my next blog post and field report. Message me for ideas for my next blog post
 
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How is being drunk for weak ppl?
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Because it shows you are vulnerable... you need à externe stimulus to let you loose.. to deal with it this feeling (shy, sadness, stress, void etc.. anything)

And that for it, to fill this lack, you ready to lose control of your body, tongue, mind, and even start smeeling bad.

There is no more turn off for a woman than à guy barely capable to staying straight, with alcool breath, trying to get in her

Also, you start losing your social dynamic capacity... thus you cant read her

Think this: why you need à drink to approach her? Why she will take the drunk over the perfectly sober guy who understand how to escaltate her.

We have a saying: Drinking is fun and a man activity, getting drunk is for the loser and kids.


At Corporate events they do judge you on the amount you drink.. the higher ups do check it.

Drink but always be in control, that's why i never go more than 2 or as soon i feel it in my blood.. water time
 
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Von said:
Because it shows you are vulnerable... you need à externe stimulus to let you loose.. to deal with it this feeling (shy, sadness, stress, void etc.. anything)

And that for it, to fill this lack, you ready to lose control of your body, tongue, mind, and even start smeeling bad.

There is no more turn off for a woman than à guy barely capable to staying straight, with alcool breath, trying to get in her

Also, you start losing your social dynamic capacity... thus you cant read her

Think this: why you need à drink to approach her? Why she will take the drunk over the perfectly sober guy who understand how to escaltate her.

We have a saying: Drinking is fun and a man activity, getting drunk is for the loser and kids.


At Corporate events they do judge you on the amount you drink.. the higher ups do check it.

Drink but always be in control, that's why i never go more than 2 or as soon i feel it in my blood.. water time
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Drinking isn't a crutch. I do the same shvt drunk while sober.

Alchohol isn't a catalyst to anything. I see what you're getting at but my inhibitions r permanently lowered. There's no reason to care about anything other than being awesome because we could be dead tomorrow.

Did you read my field report for Thursday? I was sober - n the mall at least. Don't let your fear of being marginalized hold you back
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Am I a goat or am I insane. Am i awesome or am I losing it. Am I too aggressively or do I need to amp it up. How long until someone shoots me. How long until I lose my charm and dashing good looks. How long until I make billions and conquer the world. Are there consequences for my actions. Who can stop me. Am I a criminal or a deity. Is my head up my ass or is it up hers - if u know what I mean. Lol dude I'm the worst


Leaving the gym now. Met a guy on a bike. Told him I flipped mine. Got his number no homo and we r gonna hit the scene next week. He has a house up n denver and said he's bout that life. Seems wealthy. I can teach him women and he can teach me money. I reek of awesome. Going to the mall now
 
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In the mall parking lot. Hitting up all the numbers I got last night before I go n.

Mindset: goat
Goal: Get a bvtch that's dtf, tease her, then eject

I'm sober on alchohol and drugs atm btw. Whats my goal n life? To be awesome as fvck and to make billions
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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