"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Field Report - Bar Crawling Pt 2

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would say you need to stop getting drunk. Being drunk is for weak people

It will help you to sarge more and avoid getting in all these fights you twit about, also girl will be more open to you
 
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Hitting the gym and then going to the mall. This will b my last update for this week then I'll leave this site alone until my next blog post and field report. Message me for ideas for my next blog post
 
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beforeimgone said:
How is being drunk for weak ppl?
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Because it shows you are vulnerable... you need à externe stimulus to let you loose.. to deal with it this feeling (shy, sadness, stress, void etc.. anything)

And that for it, to fill this lack, you ready to lose control of your body, tongue, mind, and even start smeeling bad.

There is no more turn off for a woman than à guy barely capable to staying straight, with alcool breath, trying to get in her

Also, you start losing your social dynamic capacity... thus you cant read her

Think this: why you need à drink to approach her? Why she will take the drunk over the perfectly sober guy who understand how to escaltate her.

We have a saying: Drinking is fun and a man activity, getting drunk is for the loser and kids.


At Corporate events they do judge you on the amount you drink.. the higher ups do check it.

Drink but always be in control, that's why i never go more than 2 or as soon i feel it in my blood.. water time
 
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Von said:
Because it shows you are vulnerable... you need à externe stimulus to let you loose.. to deal with it this feeling (shy, sadness, stress, void etc.. anything)

And that for it, to fill this lack, you ready to lose control of your body, tongue, mind, and even start smeeling bad.

There is no more turn off for a woman than à guy barely capable to staying straight, with alcool breath, trying to get in her

Also, you start losing your social dynamic capacity... thus you cant read her

Think this: why you need à drink to approach her? Why she will take the drunk over the perfectly sober guy who understand how to escaltate her.

We have a saying: Drinking is fun and a man activity, getting drunk is for the loser and kids.


At Corporate events they do judge you on the amount you drink.. the higher ups do check it.

Drink but always be in control, that's why i never go more than 2 or as soon i feel it in my blood.. water time
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Drinking isn't a crutch. I do the same shvt drunk while sober.

Alchohol isn't a catalyst to anything. I see what you're getting at but my inhibitions r permanently lowered. There's no reason to care about anything other than being awesome because we could be dead tomorrow.

Did you read my field report for Thursday? I was sober - n the mall at least. Don't let your fear of being marginalized hold you back
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Am I a goat or am I insane. Am i awesome or am I losing it. Am I too aggressively or do I need to amp it up. How long until someone shoots me. How long until I lose my charm and dashing good looks. How long until I make billions and conquer the world. Are there consequences for my actions. Who can stop me. Am I a criminal or a deity. Is my head up my ass or is it up hers - if u know what I mean. Lol dude I'm the worst


Leaving the gym now. Met a guy on a bike. Told him I flipped mine. Got his number no homo and we r gonna hit the scene next week. He has a house up n denver and said he's bout that life. Seems wealthy. I can teach him women and he can teach me money. I reek of awesome. Going to the mall now
 
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In the mall parking lot. Hitting up all the numbers I got last night before I go n.

Mindset: goat
Goal: Get a bvtch that's dtf, tease her, then eject

I'm sober on alchohol and drugs atm btw. Whats my goal n life? To be awesome as fvck and to make billions
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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