"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Last night I went to my friend's house party and met a girl there.

We played beer pong together and won all our games and joked around and stuff.

At the end of the night I got her number. The only thing is that she is only going to be here for one more week since she is going back to school.

When should I text / call her since I have limited time? Before New Years or after? or right now?

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After a lot of girls left the party, she was the last hot one left and then everyone started hitting on her. One of my friends claimed he kissed her for a second but I didnt see it. She gave me her number at the end of the night before she left. I didn't see her give her number to anyone else but i wasn't really watching carefully so i dont know.

I def. want to call her though and try to hang out with her before she goes back. I don't care she kissed my friend. (If she even did)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CORVETTE06 said:
Last night I went to my friend's house party and met a girl there.

We played beer pong together and won all our games and joked around and stuff.

At the end of the night I got her number. The only thing is that she is only going to be here for one more week since she is going back to school.

When should I text / call her since I have limited time? Before New Years or after? or right now?

Ps.
After a lot of girls left the party, she was the last hot one left and then everyone started hitting on her. One of my friends claimed he kissed her for a second but I didnt see it. She gave me her number at the end of the night before she left. I didn't see her give her number to anyone else but i wasn't really watching carefully so i dont know.

I def. want to call her though and try to hang out with her before she goes back. I don't care she kissed my friend. (If she even did)
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how far did you go with her? just talk? no serious touching?

sounds like a lost cause... so call her in a few days... it's probably already too late, but you can try and if you fail to get her to come out with you - at least you tried.
 
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we tocuhed each other and hugged and stuff but i never got her alone and made out wit her

i wanna fcukin make out wit her so i gotta see her before she goes home!
 
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