"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CORVETTE06

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Last night I went to my friend's house party and met a girl there.

We played beer pong together and won all our games and joked around and stuff.

At the end of the night I got her number. The only thing is that she is only going to be here for one more week since she is going back to school.

When should I text / call her since I have limited time? Before New Years or after? or right now?

Ps.
After a lot of girls left the party, she was the last hot one left and then everyone started hitting on her. One of my friends claimed he kissed her for a second but I didnt see it. She gave me her number at the end of the night before she left. I didn't see her give her number to anyone else but i wasn't really watching carefully so i dont know.

I def. want to call her though and try to hang out with her before she goes back. I don't care she kissed my friend. (If she even did)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bukowski_merit

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CORVETTE06 said:
Last night I went to my friend's house party and met a girl there.

We played beer pong together and won all our games and joked around and stuff.

At the end of the night I got her number. The only thing is that she is only going to be here for one more week since she is going back to school.

When should I text / call her since I have limited time? Before New Years or after? or right now?

Ps.
After a lot of girls left the party, she was the last hot one left and then everyone started hitting on her. One of my friends claimed he kissed her for a second but I didnt see it. She gave me her number at the end of the night before she left. I didn't see her give her number to anyone else but i wasn't really watching carefully so i dont know.

I def. want to call her though and try to hang out with her before she goes back. I don't care she kissed my friend. (If she even did)
how far did you go with her? just talk? no serious touching?

sounds like a lost cause... so call her in a few days... it's probably already too late, but you can try and if you fail to get her to come out with you - at least you tried.
 

CORVETTE06

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we tocuhed each other and hugged and stuff but i never got her alone and made out wit her

i wanna fcukin make out wit her so i gotta see her before she goes home!
 
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