"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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Last night I went to my friend's house party and met a girl there.

We played beer pong together and won all our games and joked around and stuff.

At the end of the night I got her number. The only thing is that she is only going to be here for one more week since she is going back to school.

When should I text / call her since I have limited time? Before New Years or after? or right now?

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After a lot of girls left the party, she was the last hot one left and then everyone started hitting on her. One of my friends claimed he kissed her for a second but I didnt see it. She gave me her number at the end of the night before she left. I didn't see her give her number to anyone else but i wasn't really watching carefully so i dont know.

I def. want to call her though and try to hang out with her before she goes back. I don't care she kissed my friend. (If she even did)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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CORVETTE06 said:
Last night I went to my friend's house party and met a girl there.

We played beer pong together and won all our games and joked around and stuff.

At the end of the night I got her number. The only thing is that she is only going to be here for one more week since she is going back to school.

When should I text / call her since I have limited time? Before New Years or after? or right now?

Ps.
After a lot of girls left the party, she was the last hot one left and then everyone started hitting on her. One of my friends claimed he kissed her for a second but I didnt see it. She gave me her number at the end of the night before she left. I didn't see her give her number to anyone else but i wasn't really watching carefully so i dont know.

I def. want to call her though and try to hang out with her before she goes back. I don't care she kissed my friend. (If she even did)
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how far did you go with her? just talk? no serious touching?

sounds like a lost cause... so call her in a few days... it's probably already too late, but you can try and if you fail to get her to come out with you - at least you tried.
 
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we tocuhed each other and hugged and stuff but i never got her alone and made out wit her

i wanna fcukin make out wit her so i gotta see her before she goes home!
 
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