Field Report #9: Date on rooftop bar with cute indian girl

[Ryan]

If YOU think I learned nothing then teach me.... to be as 'successful' as you.

 

[R.U.G.]

If YOU think I learned nothing then teach me.... to be as 'successful' as you.

We're trying dude. YOU ARE NOT ABSORBING WHAT THE FORUM IS TRYING TO TEACH YOU.

 

[Ryan]

We're trying dude. YOU ARE NOT ABSORBING WHAT THE FORUM IS TRYING TO TEACH YOU.

oh I beg to differ........when I first joined this site 18 years ago I was a virgin .......who never had a gf before...now I probably get laid more than the average person on here who spends at least 4 hours a day reading the site...

I'm hardly on this site to be honest......have a life offline.

Thank You.

 

[MrWood]

your field report reads like a 17yo who just discovered PUA...

stfu lol

I first joined this site 18 years ago I was a virgin

so you are like 36 now?

now I probably get laid more than the average person

no you dont

 

[R.U.G.]

oh I beg to differ........when I first joined this site 18 years ago I was a virgin .......who never had a gf before...now I probably get laid more than the average person on here who spends at least 4 hours a day reading the site...

I'm hardly on this site to be honest......have a life offline.

Thank You.

Seems to me you're still a virgin in real life. Or, at least act like one online. Did you re-read what you wrote?

 

[Ryan]

your field report reads like a 17yo who just discovered PUA...

stfu lol

so you are like 36 now?

no you dont

Half the people on this forum are virgins who spend 6 hours a day reading and arguing, lets be honest.

If you think you are so good with women , then please enlighten us.

 

[Ryan]

Seems to me you're still a virgin in real life. Or, at least act like one online. Did you re-read what you wrote?

Reread what? thats my honest field report, I never said I was a ladies man...I came here for help......wheres your field report?

 

[R.U.G.]

Reread what? thats my honest field report, I never said I was a ladies man...I came here for help......wheres your field report?

We're trying to help you. Do you not see that multiple people are saying the same thing. My field report? I'm not asking for help. However, I posted my success on Friday night in another thread.

 

[Fzatf]

Hi there my dear brothers,

So this is my ninth FR here on Sosuave, I have been here for eons....but I still have a lot to learn about women.

1) The Girl

• 22 year old indian college student (but looks a lot younger)
• Shes exactly my type -->> very cute not your typical north american girl.

2) How we met

• She SuperLiked me on Tinder.....we chatted a bit on Tinder...then I escalated to Whatsapp...then on WA I asked her to hang out, and she gave me the low interest vague "ill let you know" ....
• Then I decided to up the ante and call her....she pretended I got the wrong phone number, and then I made a really funny joke and she laughed and I persuaded her to go on a date with me (My Sticky point is raising attraction)
• I told her that I have a nice surprise for her..

3) The date

• Was a little late...picked her up she looked even cuter in real life. She got into my car and we drove to the roof top lounge with a beautiful view of the city.
• During the car ride there ---the conversation was quite awkward, she kept asking me to repeat myself (and I speak fairly clearly) almost as if she had a hearing problem.
• For some wierd reason she insisted on keeping her backpack with her, and even brought it into the bar , even after I pleaded with her to leave it in the car.
• Walking to the bar--> I asked to see her ring, which I turned into holding hands (is this the wrong way to get a girl to hold hands with you? )
• We sat in a booth , chatted I put my arm around her , the conversation didn't flow, I told her to turn around and look at the view and then said surprise!,
• Tried to run the IC Pattern...but I didnt think it was effective, since for some reason she didn't understand what I was saying. (I also haven't memorized it- which I should make a point of doing)
• I notice she keeps looking at the time on her phone--> then she says she needs to be home by 11 , she says she can take the bus, I ask her where she lives, and say no problem I will drop her home
• I hold her hand from the hotel to the car

4) Funny ride home

• Again awkward conversation on the way home: she cant hear me very well.
• In my head im thinking I need to find a way to kiss this uber cute girl, and pretend that I need to pull over to call a mate (I know its wack I admit)
• Pretend to call mate: then I ask her something and tell her I have another surprise, close your eyes; I go in for the kiss........she responds "No please dont!" , I beg cmon just one kiss , she says no , I only kiss if their is a "love connection" ...I m like whatever I drop her off home.

Just now I see she blocked me off whatsapp lol ....thats ok

OUt of all the girls I dated she was by far the cutest!

Ok so rate and critique?

Thank you for your time.





@dustmuffin @Desdinova @Poonani Maker @Mizer @marmel75

You're putting in the work and giving field reports. That puts you ahead of some posters already. So it didn't turn out how you hoped. It's a learning experience.

Key thing to pick up from this interaction is how to read interest level and be flexible with your actions based on that interest level. If she was interested she wouldn't have pretended you had the wrong number. If she was interested the conversation would have been smoother. If she was interested she would have kissed you and not had the curfew.

Some dates go better than others and it sounds like you have success at times. Now you can better read interest and know what not to do.

 

[skinnyguy]

Half the people on this forum are virgins who spend 6 hours a day reading and arguing, lets be honest.

If you think you are so good with women , then please enlighten us.

Lmao you have a good point. If guys on SS we’re good with women they wouldn’t know this site exists.

I’ll be the first to admit that I’m ugly and struggle with women.

 

[Ryan]

Lmao you have a good point. If guys on SS we’re good with women they wouldn’t know this site exists.

I’ll be the first to admit that I’m ugly and struggle with women.

Of course I have a point......points for being honest mate!