"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FIELD REPORT#8: Out of defeat, victory!

Marlimus

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My burning passion for self-improvement had been waning over the last couple days. Hadn't been going to the gym. Neglected my acne regimen, and it flared up again.

I met a chick in the cafeteria today who I knew had a boyfriend but I was sure she like me. she says she wants some economics tutoring tonight for her big exam, I say sure, come on over.

I spend an hour and a half, with this chick in spite of the fact that I had (have!!!) a midterm to study for tomorrow (well technically its today, now) 100% sure I was getting my kiss close. She gets ready to leave. I had been kinoing her while I was explaining the cross elasticity of demand and tax incidence blahblah.

I move in for the kiss close, nervous, but still sure of victory. This chick is a 6.5 at best. And I'm Marlimus. Surprise, surprise. The cheek turn. She says thanks for everything and then leaves.

I kick myself for what was basically an AFC relapse.(Maybe I need to hit the gym, get plenty of liquids, and take some 'Pook' 3 times a day for a speedy recovery!)

But then I started to laugh like a madman. Because I KNEW. My game was steadily improving. I was steadily improving. I had hotter chicks than her on the horizon, things look bright. I laughed because her rejection was just the thing i needed. The fires have been rekindled. It is she who is losing out in the end.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MVPlaya

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Originally posted by Marlimus
I spend an hour and a half, with this chick in spite of the fact that I had (have!!!) a midterm to study for tomorrow (well technically its today, now)
GO STUDY!
 
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