Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FIELD REPORT#8: Out of defeat, victory!

Marlimus

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My burning passion for self-improvement had been waning over the last couple days. Hadn't been going to the gym. Neglected my acne regimen, and it flared up again.

I met a chick in the cafeteria today who I knew had a boyfriend but I was sure she like me. she says she wants some economics tutoring tonight for her big exam, I say sure, come on over.

I spend an hour and a half, with this chick in spite of the fact that I had (have!!!) a midterm to study for tomorrow (well technically its today, now) 100% sure I was getting my kiss close. She gets ready to leave. I had been kinoing her while I was explaining the cross elasticity of demand and tax incidence blahblah.

I move in for the kiss close, nervous, but still sure of victory. This chick is a 6.5 at best. And I'm Marlimus. Surprise, surprise. The cheek turn. She says thanks for everything and then leaves.

I kick myself for what was basically an AFC relapse.(Maybe I need to hit the gym, get plenty of liquids, and take some 'Pook' 3 times a day for a speedy recovery!)

But then I started to laugh like a madman. Because I KNEW. My game was steadily improving. I was steadily improving. I had hotter chicks than her on the horizon, things look bright. I laughed because her rejection was just the thing i needed. The fires have been rekindled. It is she who is losing out in the end.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MVPlaya

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Originally posted by Marlimus
I spend an hour and a half, with this chick in spite of the fact that I had (have!!!) a midterm to study for tomorrow (well technically its today, now)
GO STUDY!
 
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