"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FIELD REPORT #5: Follow up on pickup

Marlimus

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This is the followup on the girl I met last week at the gym, who couldn't remember her extension so she gave me her email.

I sent her the following email today, a week later:
___________________________________________________
Hey Tracy
You remember me, right? The tall, dark and handsome you met at the gym
last week (you spent 5 minutes trying to pronounce my name)

Would have gotten back to you sooner but I'm taking 19 credits two jobs
plus extracurriculars. I'm ridiculously busy. If you want a date, make
sure to schedule at least 3 working days in advance ;) ha ha)

I'll try to squeeze you in for dinner sometime next week, or we could
go rock climbing, unless you're scared of heights, which would be
disappointing. In the meantime, give me your phone number.
___________________________________________________

Marlimus out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rswarren

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seems like your overdoing it a bit.

Like your trying to brag that your so busy. It also seems like forced C+ F.
 

Marlimus

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we'll see.

"With every mistake we must surely be learning."
- The Beatles
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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