"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FIELD REPORT #5: Follow up on pickup

Marlimus

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This is the followup on the girl I met last week at the gym, who couldn't remember her extension so she gave me her email.

I sent her the following email today, a week later:
___________________________________________________
Hey Tracy
You remember me, right? The tall, dark and handsome you met at the gym
last week (you spent 5 minutes trying to pronounce my name)

Would have gotten back to you sooner but I'm taking 19 credits two jobs
plus extracurriculars. I'm ridiculously busy. If you want a date, make
sure to schedule at least 3 working days in advance ;) ha ha)

I'll try to squeeze you in for dinner sometime next week, or we could
go rock climbing, unless you're scared of heights, which would be
disappointing. In the meantime, give me your phone number.
___________________________________________________

Marlimus out
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rswarren

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seems like your overdoing it a bit.

Like your trying to brag that your so busy. It also seems like forced C+ F.
 

Marlimus

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we'll see.

"With every mistake we must surely be learning."
- The Beatles
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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