"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Field Report 1st Date lay

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OK, Had a date tonight with a blonde right around a 7. Nice ass and she had a boob job.
She is a recovering alcoholic. Hasn't had a drink in 15 years. Any way we meet for drinks. I had a beer she had tea. We chit chat for about an hour and I apply my usual heavy kino. I decided it was time to go so I walked her to her car. Next thing I know she is trying to swallow my face. I suggested we sit in her car. We made out for a bit,fingered a very wet p ussy and she suggests we go to my place.

We go and we spend the next 2 hours f ucking. I tied her up. Spanked her ass,. Pulled her hair, f ucked her ass. She was a lot of fun. She squirted like a fire hose and moaned so loud I thought the neighbors might complain.

Anyway guys keep at it. All of your hard work will pay off. I have dates friday and saturday with different girls too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good job dude. No bl0wjob?
 

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Do you always apply kino first, without waiting for her?
Yes, start out touching her arm, arm around her for just a few seconds, lightly touch her thigh a few seconds.

Holding eye contact is very important too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Great job man.... You're progress within the last year and change has been nothing less than amazing. Have you ever considered dating even younger?
 

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Yes, start out touching her arm, arm around her for just a few seconds, lightly touch her thigh a few seconds.

Holding eye contact is very important too.
How do you calibrate after that? Only proceed to more if she reciprocates? And was this also a first date?
 

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Google the Vin decarlo Escalation ladder. That will help you with kino. I don't care if she reciprocates. My first date lay last night didn't reciprocate until she attacked me in the parking lot. I got a text today from her telling me that I wore out her p ussy.


How do you calibrate after that? Only proceed to more if she reciprocates? And was this also a first date?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do you think there'll be a second date?
 
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