Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Field Report 1st Date lay

dustmuffin

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OK, Had a date tonight with a blonde right around a 7. Nice ass and she had a boob job.
She is a recovering alcoholic. Hasn't had a drink in 15 years. Any way we meet for drinks. I had a beer she had tea. We chit chat for about an hour and I apply my usual heavy kino. I decided it was time to go so I walked her to her car. Next thing I know she is trying to swallow my face. I suggested we sit in her car. We made out for a bit,fingered a very wet p ussy and she suggests we go to my place.

We go and we spend the next 2 hours f ucking. I tied her up. Spanked her ass,. Pulled her hair, f ucked her ass. She was a lot of fun. She squirted like a fire hose and moaned so loud I thought the neighbors might complain.

Anyway guys keep at it. All of your hard work will pay off. I have dates friday and saturday with different girls too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good job dude. No bl0wjob?
 

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Do you always apply kino first, without waiting for her?
Yes, start out touching her arm, arm around her for just a few seconds, lightly touch her thigh a few seconds.

Holding eye contact is very important too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Great job man.... You're progress within the last year and change has been nothing less than amazing. Have you ever considered dating even younger?
 

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Yes, start out touching her arm, arm around her for just a few seconds, lightly touch her thigh a few seconds.

Holding eye contact is very important too.
How do you calibrate after that? Only proceed to more if she reciprocates? And was this also a first date?
 

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Google the Vin decarlo Escalation ladder. That will help you with kino. I don't care if she reciprocates. My first date lay last night didn't reciprocate until she attacked me in the parking lot. I got a text today from her telling me that I wore out her p ussy.


How do you calibrate after that? Only proceed to more if she reciprocates? And was this also a first date?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do you think there'll be a second date?
 
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