Field rapport - succes but how to proceed?

[TheGambino]

Yesterday I went clubbing. I saw this cute hb8 tiny blonde girl on the dancefloor. I smiled, she smiled back. After a while I just waved to her to come to me and she did. Had a small chit chat and tried to light kino. She left again to her friends. We kept flirting but her friends were c*ckblocking me, standing in front of her and stuff (that sh1t happens all the time in Holland, idk about other countries).

Eventually I moved slowly towards her again and started to dance with her for a bit. After that I went for drinks and lost her.

Anyway she went to the bar and danced there for at least an hour, I passed her and saw her talk to another guy for quite a long time. I passed but acted like I didn't see her, tried to hit up other girls instead and have a good time.

Some time later I went to the bar myself and stood there. She passed me and said ''heey'' and I grabbed her hand and pushed her towards me. We danced to reaggaeton, kinda sexy, smelled her neck, kino'ed, all that. Had some rapport with her, she told me about a baby she lost 4 years ago, about where she lives, what she does and asked me what I like to do. I replied with, I like cars, working out and sex lmao. I think she approved to that.

Bought her a drink (an expensive one -.-'). Kino'd some more, and number closed, we agreed to have a drink soon.

Her c*ckblocking friend came again and pushed her away... She smiled and left.

I went outside when the club was about to close. I waited for 30 mins for her outside lmao, had nothing to do anyway.

I saw her and a lot of guys were around her and her friends outside. I went to her had another chit chat then, she walked a bit towards me and I grabbed her hand and isolated her. Asked her what your up too? She said, nothing just going to sleep with my (female) friends. I went for the kiss, we made out and bailed.

SO this went great ofcourse but it happened to me before that I text the next day or 2 days later or whatever and they act aloof and don't wanna hang out. I dont know about this one, I think her interest is pretty high though. Any tips, overall thoughts on the night, suggestions how to proceed?

Background:

She works at a pharmacy, shes 3 years older, small cute girl, likes animals, she was drunk at the end, not so much when we had our first contact.

 

[RangerMIke]

C0ck blocking happens everywhere in a club scene, doesn't matter what county. The important thing to remember is that a woman that REALLY likes you will not let her friends drag her away from you. If she got pulled away, it's almost certain that this is what she wanted. It doesn't mean she doesn't like you, but just that nothing is going to happen that night.

When you are confronted with CB, understand that they are doing this because they believe they are doing what their friend wants. The best way to deal with this is to not get butt hurt about it and start flirting with the c0ck-blockers.... This tells them you are just there to have some fun and you are not a serious threat... makes friends with the CBs and you'll be fine.

Never buy drinks for women, period. It is a waste of money and it will get you no place... you are signaling to her that you are trying too hard...

Her interest level is good... you can work with this. Call her and make a date... then you will know for sure where you stand, right now my guess is that you are in the game, but be honest with yourself, you are only one of at least 6 guys that made a run at her that night. Based on what you stated I think you did okay.... she thinks your a man, and that's all that matters at this point. Move forward.. see what happens... good luck.

 

[MrWood]

drop by the pharmacy

 

[marmel75]

drop by the pharmacy

Hell no...that's a psycho stalker move

 

[CMNILS87]

Hell no...that's a psycho stalker move

Agreed, super bad idea. If a chick showed up at my workplace.....

 

[hockeyfreak79]

yeah don't bother with buying drinks for club broads, I had a hot a** Latina trying to get me to buy her & her gf drinks. Hell no! She got pissy but not for long, a couple minutes later she asked me to hold her drink. Yeah sure but there's a tax for that. I'm going to drink some. She got pissed off BUT turned on at the same time.

10 mins later she's grinding her ass on my stuff, basically a standing lap dance at the club. Plated her for alittle over a year, good times.

I wouldn't put much effort into this chick, stick with younger broads with less baggage. But hey if you wanna hit it & try an older broad go for it.

 

[TheGambino]

We were texting a little bit.

After some chit chat.

Me: im having drinks tommorow in the afternoon at *specific place where she lives nearby. You should come along.

Her: im already going there with friends. But text me if you are there. Ill come and hang out with you. Im there right now.

Her: i just swom in the sea. Its so cold. Dudududududududdudu blabla

 

[CMNILS87]

We were texting a little bit.

After some chit chat.

Me: im having drinks tommorow in the afternoon at *specific place where she lives nearby. You should come along.

Her: im already going there with friends. But text me if you are there. Ill come and hang out with you. Im there right now.

Her: i just swom in the sea. Its so cold. Dudududududududdudu blabla

Ignore her for now. You want to isolate her and have alone time with her, you won't get that with friends lurking around. Plus who would look like a weirdo hanging at the bar by yourself waiting for her to come over. She's testing to see if you're desperate enough to listen to her commands and her friends there already are an automatic ****block so she can skinny out of there. Ignore and NC for a few days

 

[TheGambino]

Ignore her for now. You want to isolate her and have alone time with her, you won't get that with friends lurking around. Plus who would look like a weirdo hanging at the bar by yourself waiting for her to come over. She's testing to see if you're desperate enough to listen to her commands and her friends there already are an automatic ****block so she can skinny out of there. Ignore and NC for a few days

Im going with a friend. I wont be alone. But she can still ditch out... i think ill take my chances im out to have a good time. I could excuse the table and take her for a walk.