"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheTurtle

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Who: Product demo girl (18-23 y/o)
What: 1st interaction with cute girl while being Red Pill aware
When 3/9/19
Where Grocery Store
She was demoing an energy drink and touting its superiority to Monster, Red Bull, etc. I picked one of the flavors and slurped it down like a shot of whiskey.
Me: Oops! Probably shouldn't have treated it like a shooter at the bar! *I laughed. She laughed* (She had a pierced tongue!)
A little more polite chit chat about the product. I asked her favorite flavor. (Should have asked her to pick one for me)
Me: Not bad. I'll take that and the other ones I tried.
Her: You're gonna like 'em. *Big smile*

1: This girl seemed friendly enough and possibly receptive to a little flirting and Game. However, her job was to be friendly and cute so hard to say how receptive she truly was.
2: Could definitely have been a little more ****y and funny.
3: Her attractiveness overwhelmed me and I locked up to anything beyond rote pleasantries.
4: The situation was, I believe, ideal for a little flirting and for a number close with the right guy.

Your thoughts, insights and suggestions for how to improve are encouraged and appreciated!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shouldbefun

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Is redpill like a new fancy word every guy those days is saying he is a redpill? If anything guys before the internet had more balls than us, they lived redpill without it being a hype as it is now. Redpill is a fancy way to say “take them off the pedastal”.

Its you vs the girl. Forget about the other guys.
The tongue is a weird beast, better be sharpening it all the time.
What I would say, more boldness. Go ask the number. Lock eyes if you can.
Its defo hard when the convo is not smooth.

How long did you talk to her ?
 

TheTurtle

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How long did you talk to her ?[/QUOTE]

The convo lasted 3 minutes, max. Like I said, I locked up beyond the rote banalities of polite interaction. In retrospect I can see how I might have asked the number. The trick will be to recognize the moment and act next time.

I use the term "Red Pill aware" because there is so much more to all this for me than simply "taking them off the pedestal" though that is certainly an important element to it.

Thanks for the response!
 

Doctor Europeo

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Who: Product demo girl (18-23 y/o)
What: 1st interaction with cute girl while being Red Pill aware
When 3/9/19
Where Grocery Store
She was demoing an energy drink and touting its superiority to Monster, Red Bull, etc. I picked one of the flavors and slurped it down like a shot of whiskey.
Me: Oops! Probably shouldn't have treated it like a shooter at the bar! *I laughed. She laughed* (She had a pierced tongue!)
A little more polite chit chat about the product. I asked her favorite flavor. (Should have asked her to pick one for me)
Me: Not bad. I'll take that and the other ones I tried.
Her: You're gonna like 'em. *Big smile*

1: This girl seemed friendly enough and possibly receptive to a little flirting and Game. However, her job was to be friendly and cute so hard to say how receptive she truly was.
2: Could definitely have been a little more ****y and funny.
3: Her attractiveness overwhelmed me and I locked up to anything beyond rote pleasantries.
4: The situation was, I believe, ideal for a little flirting and for a number close with the right guy.

Your thoughts, insights and suggestions for how to improve are encouraged and appreciated!
I think u you should´ve gone for the kill @ the end of the interaction even if there was a huge probability of rejection. Keep it up.
 
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