"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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fiber/beans

kickureface

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im getting a tad confused on fiber. i know one absorbs water and helps your **** better (soluble?) and the other wont tell us what they do!
so whats the difference? ive noticed i need to wipe less when i get high intakes of fiber.
the only rich sources of fiber i know are oats and beans. are there any other tasty foods too, because im getting sick of oats. unless, of course, it is coated with beef.
also, beans. thats a good carb right? eat them all you want all the time, even in carb timed diets? (same with good veggies?)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Warboss Alex

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vegetables are your absolute best source of fibre, you may eat these freely (don't bother counting the carbs in them).

beans are a good source of fibre but they are a carb source like oats.. not like vegetables. they do affect blood sugar/insulin (though of course not as much as starches) and should be used in controlled amounts, or as part of carb meals/days.

(think of them like fruit, in controlled amounts it is awesome but 400g of fruit/bean carbs in a day and you will be sorry..)

another source of fibre is seeds, e.g. flaxseeds, pumpkin seeds, and also most nuts. 1oz of flaxseeds has 6g fibre for example.

aim for 20-30g of fibre a day, 3+ servings of veggies and 2-3 from nuts/seeds should do it easily.
 

kickureface

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how the **** do you eat seeds? chewing those buggers is like hitting and missing.
swallow?
im no girl...
 

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grind 'em: coffee grinder, food processor, blender, whatever you have or can get a hold of cheaply.
 

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kickureface said:
how the **** do you eat seeds? chewing those buggers is like hitting and missing.
swallow?
im no girl...
One tablespoon flax seeds with your rice is easy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hmm. if you dont chew them whenthey are added in other foods, does it go straight out or does it digest?
 
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