"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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fiber/beans

kickureface

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im getting a tad confused on fiber. i know one absorbs water and helps your **** better (soluble?) and the other wont tell us what they do!
so whats the difference? ive noticed i need to wipe less when i get high intakes of fiber.
the only rich sources of fiber i know are oats and beans. are there any other tasty foods too, because im getting sick of oats. unless, of course, it is coated with beef.
also, beans. thats a good carb right? eat them all you want all the time, even in carb timed diets? (same with good veggies?)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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vegetables are your absolute best source of fibre, you may eat these freely (don't bother counting the carbs in them).

beans are a good source of fibre but they are a carb source like oats.. not like vegetables. they do affect blood sugar/insulin (though of course not as much as starches) and should be used in controlled amounts, or as part of carb meals/days.

(think of them like fruit, in controlled amounts it is awesome but 400g of fruit/bean carbs in a day and you will be sorry..)

another source of fibre is seeds, e.g. flaxseeds, pumpkin seeds, and also most nuts. 1oz of flaxseeds has 6g fibre for example.

aim for 20-30g of fibre a day, 3+ servings of veggies and 2-3 from nuts/seeds should do it easily.
 

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how the **** do you eat seeds? chewing those buggers is like hitting and missing.
swallow?
im no girl...
 

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grind 'em: coffee grinder, food processor, blender, whatever you have or can get a hold of cheaply.
 

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kickureface said:
how the **** do you eat seeds? chewing those buggers is like hitting and missing.
swallow?
im no girl...
One tablespoon flax seeds with your rice is easy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hmm. if you dont chew them whenthey are added in other foods, does it go straight out or does it digest?
 
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