Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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fiance driving me nuts.

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Originally posted by mysterymanelp
My fiance and I went out to the store to pickup some pillows and stuff. While in checkout there was this girl right in front of us maybe about 23 or 24 nice body really good looking. I dont pay this girl any attention. While getting in the car my fiance is a little mad and says did u like that girl in front of us or what. I tell her no matter what I do u get mad if I do look at them or if i dont look at them. She stays quite and doesnt say anything.

Has this happend to any of you guys out there and what did u do?
WTF!!!!! OH HELL NAWWW!!!!


If you think your relationship with this bytch (and yes I called your fiance a bytch), is going to get any better.....


THINK AGAIN!!!!



Your pvssy whipped man. This woman now has your balls in a vise and your jumping around like a monkey to keep

HER

Happy.

How does it feel, nowing that your going to wear that collar around your kneck "till death do you part"?

Now your nothing more than a trained monkey...acting a certain way just not to piss off "honey dear". Oh NOOOO you wouldn't want to read that swim suit of sports illustrated...cause "honey dear" will get man and pout and sulk.


OK here is some advice:

1. Don't marry this woman.

2. If you do have her get some therapy

3. Grow some nuts my freind cause you do need em.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Julian

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So whats the deal? Did you tell her whats up? Update man, update.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
So whats the deal? Did you tell her whats up? Update man, update.

Yeah I happen to tell her that night she was crying like always. She says that she doesnt understand why girls just done leave me alone. She says that when we go out she see's girls checking me out and that is why she is so insecure because she knows that I'm not happy in the relationship. I told her that i care about her, but I dont love her anymore she almost went nuts. YOU SEE THAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH GIRLS THAT ARE 9'S. they are so insecure that it screws up your relationship. I tell her sh@@ there are lot of times when we go out and I see 4 or 5 guys checking you out I dont get mad. She tells me that she wants to really try hard on not be so insecure in the relationship.

Some how I just gotta tell her that I wanna see other women, but It would hurt her really bad. Her mom just told us that she might be leaving her father.

Her father got caught having a affair with another woman so its been pretty hard on my fiance.
 

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Sounds like she needs some councelling. If you love her, maybe you should give her a chance to change. Also, younger girls can get like that, but will grow out of it. Try to get her to deal with her hangups, if you're interested in saving your relationship with her. Otherwise.....
 
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