"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fiancée laments that her man is too poor for such a pretty woman like her

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http://www.slate.com/articles/life/...ar_prudence_i_m_too_pretty_for_my_fiance.html

I'm recently engaged to the most honest, thoughtful, and loving man I've ever met. He has supported me through many hard times, including losing my job and being assaulted. Here's the but about him: He makes no money. He has ambitions, and he's smart, but will likely only bring a middle-class income at best. I have an OK job and I'm self-sufficient. Now here's the but about me: I'm really, really pretty. My whole life people have told me I could get any man I want, meaning a rich man, and are shocked that I'm engaged to my fiancé, nice though he is. I’ve never dated a rich man, but it does make me curious. So part of me thinks I'm squandering my good looks on this poor man, and the other part of me thinks that I'm so shallow that I don't even deserve him or anyone else. Am I a fool for thinking that a poor man can make me happy, or an idiot for believing a sexist fantasy?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the words in slate are meant to be read only by femcvnts and faggots
 
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He needs to dump this chick. I don't care what she looks like. She's got an "Ok job" and yet she's complaining about him? There was a girl who helped Tommy Lee of Motley Crue when the band was starting out. She used to throw him a little cash, buy groceries, that sort of thing. Eventually she said, "You're not making a living, why don't you get a real job." Women either believe in their men or they don't. If they don't, they get kicked to the curb. If they do, they're a keeper.
 

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We can all sleep well at night knowing that shallow gold-digging women rarely have a happy ending in life. Their best years are their 20's and 30's. Most of them are miserable in old age.. except for those who managed to successfully steal a man's wealth via divorce.

Every attractive woman you see will be a wrinkled hag one day. One luxury nature gave to men and denied women is the gift of TIME. Too many men forget this and flush their money and lives away trying to hang on to a woman who will eventually wilt like a dead flower over time. :crazy:

Most men forget that women lose their charm as fast as they lose their beauty. So that girl you're in love with won't have the same personality when she is 45 or 55. Idiots don't think ahead. All women have an expiration date.
 

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Maybe he should just put it in her butt. She'd like him then.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd like to see her picture... all these dubmazzes have friends and family telling them how HOT they are.... when THEY are 5's
 
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