"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fertility Test.

Rainman4707

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Been trying for a baby with my partner for ten months now unsuccessfully. We decided to get tested.

I went to get tested today.

About 5 years ago i decided to stop masturbating. I like to keep myself for women. Never had any problems getting a hard on with my women. I'm always hard as a rock straight away when with my partner.

I had to masturbate on Saturday so that I had fresh semen for todays fertility test. I really struggled to get hard when I was masturbating on Saturday & today in the hospital, although I tried on Monday & I got hard straight away. I'm thinking maybe it's because I don't masturbate, so i'm not used to it or because I did felt in a rush on both occasions. Saturday I was getting ready for work & today the fertility woman told me "you have a ten minute time allocation, if you're not done by then...we'll rearrange an appointment."

It's a strange one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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