"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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:rockon: The girl from the previous post has invited me to come drink with her on Saturday. Sounds like fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright, things are going swimmingly with me. It's gotten to the point where I'm being approached by women and they ask me for my number. Things are going very well indeed. I'm just going to make a comment on the vast majority of the threads I've seen started on this DJ Discussion forum; that is that they are all about either handling the women in their lives or trying to get women. When I first joined this site a few months ago I was trying to become a stronger person before I entered college, and that's essentially what being a "Don Juan" is. You don't concern yourself with picking up women, chances are you'll get rejected so many times you'll lose heart and therefore confidence. You don't concern yourself with maintaining the women you're with. Instead, focus your time and energy in a direction that will make you successful and happy. Once you have success and contentment, as well as a healthy drive, people will be attracted to you. Especially women. And from there, it is considerably easier. Just my two cents.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Time for an update. I feel a little strange today, but anyway I'm pretty sure this girl I'm talking to is trying to play games with me or something. We were hanging out with some other people and she was flirty with another guy. I didn't pay her any attention and I saw from the corner of my eye she was looking over briefly to check if I was looking. Anyways, I just deleted her number and I'm moving on. Ain't nobody got time fo' dat!
 
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hahaha I hope that was a Tosh.0 reference at the end! And yea dude, don't mess with girls like that. Great plan. Do you know any areas of the website based on self improvement? I feel like I have a pretty great personality, but I need to work on a few things. I'd love to get together a mastermind group with you too if you're interested!
 
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