"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fenix94

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:rockon: The girl from the previous post has invited me to come drink with her on Saturday. Sounds like fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright, things are going swimmingly with me. It's gotten to the point where I'm being approached by women and they ask me for my number. Things are going very well indeed. I'm just going to make a comment on the vast majority of the threads I've seen started on this DJ Discussion forum; that is that they are all about either handling the women in their lives or trying to get women. When I first joined this site a few months ago I was trying to become a stronger person before I entered college, and that's essentially what being a "Don Juan" is. You don't concern yourself with picking up women, chances are you'll get rejected so many times you'll lose heart and therefore confidence. You don't concern yourself with maintaining the women you're with. Instead, focus your time and energy in a direction that will make you successful and happy. Once you have success and contentment, as well as a healthy drive, people will be attracted to you. Especially women. And from there, it is considerably easier. Just my two cents.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Time for an update. I feel a little strange today, but anyway I'm pretty sure this girl I'm talking to is trying to play games with me or something. We were hanging out with some other people and she was flirty with another guy. I didn't pay her any attention and I saw from the corner of my eye she was looking over briefly to check if I was looking. Anyways, I just deleted her number and I'm moving on. Ain't nobody got time fo' dat!
 

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hahaha I hope that was a Tosh.0 reference at the end! And yea dude, don't mess with girls like that. Great plan. Do you know any areas of the website based on self improvement? I feel like I have a pretty great personality, but I need to work on a few things. I'd love to get together a mastermind group with you too if you're interested!
 
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