MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Just add another letter to the alphabet, unless there's already an H?Heterowhat?![]()
The entire leftist premise is built upon jealousy. The people who rise to power in the leftist world are the ones who can capitalize on this victim mentality and are smart enough (and evil enough) to profit off the fake oppressed and useful idiots.You notice it's never attractive women that are feminists
Leftism is based on taking revenge on whoever "stole" success.The entire leftist premise is built upon jealousy. The people who rise to power in the leftist world are the ones who can capitalize on this victim mentality and are smart enough (and evil enough) to profit off the fake oppressed and useful idiots.
They are too dumb to realize that their 'leaders' are their true oppressors. Why are they not pissed at them?Leftism is based on taking revenge on whoever "stole" success.
Ask them who is successful and they will all point at anyone with a single dollar more than them.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No, it’s not. As a political ideology “leftism” in the West is a fusion of social libertarianism and economic collectivism /strongly regulated capitalism.Leftism is based on taking revenge on whoever "stole" success.
Ask them who is successful and they will all point at anyone with a single dollar more than them.
Most people I know who lean left don’t view singular politicans as messianic figures. That is more common on the far-right end of the spectrum.They are too dumb to realize that their 'leaders' are their true oppressors. Why are they not pissed at them?
Take Obama for example. He's rich now. He was the savior, and if you look at it objectively, 8 years of him resulted in a situation where people had to riot because they were SOOOOOOOO oppressed. Yet no one points to him. He was the head guy in charge, why didn't their situation improve?
I always hear, "We've come a long way, but we still have more work to do!" Ok, by what standard? When will we have done enough work? Crickets. Will never happen.
If they really wanted the change they talk about, why didn't they nominate Bernie? Why do they keep nominating puppets?
faccctttttsssssThe entire leftist premise is built upon jealousy. The people who rise to power in the leftist world are the ones who can capitalize on this victim mentality and are smart enough (and evil enough) to profit off the fake oppressed and useful idiots.
To put leftists and libertarians in the same sentence is like putting feminists and human rights activists sitting at the same table.No, it’s not. As a political ideology “leftism” in the West is a fusion of social libertarianism and economic collectivism /strongly regulated capitalism.
Whats the name of that mixed race guy that was welcomed as the saviour of the world and even getting a nobel for peace for no particular reason? I recall he was quit popular few years ago, more than a rockstar.Most people I know who lean left don’t view singular politicans as messianic figures. That is more common on the far-right end of the spectrum.
Same sh1t with those marxist feminist women that founded BLM, they got filthy rich in the last months while cities were burning....oh now after that Im sure black guys are no longer victims of discrimination and Im even more sure that they are sharing their wealth with fatherless minority guys.They are too dumb to realize that their 'leaders' are their true oppressors. Why are they not pissed at them?
Take Obama for example. He's rich now. He was the savior, and if you look at it objectively, 8 years of him resulted in a situation where people had to riot because they were SOOOOOOOO oppressed. Yet no one points to him. He was the head guy in charge, why didn't their situation improve?
I always hear, "We've come a long way, but we still have more work to do!" Ok, by what standard? When will we have done enough work? Crickets. Will never happen.
If they really wanted the change they talk about, why didn't they nominate Bernie? Why do they keep nominating puppets?
Academically that is just wrong. Modern “leftists” are social libertarians.To put leftists and libertarians in the same sentence is like putting feminists and human rights activists sitting at the same table.
That is a strawman fallacy. You should stick to the topic at hand because there is no objectivity in any of your posts.Whats the name of that mixed race guy that was welcomed as the saviour of the world and even getting a nobel for peace for no particular reason? I recall he was quit popular few years ago, more than a rockstar.
It doesn’t, but it’s amusing to see the caricatures people create of the “other side.”Pretty sure this whole left vs. right thing doesn't matter.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.