Femme to Masculine?

[CactusMcDougal]

From what I have read in the DJ Bible many times, masculinity is key in gaining the confidence to build social networks and the like, and it seems to be the core value of SoSuave's community. I have been described as looking very feminine by several female ex-friends, male ex-friends, and even my own mother. When I look in the mirror I do see quite a bit of femme in my look; the face, the legs, etc. But, it's not just the looks, a very brutally honest female ex-friend of mine said that I "act a lot like a girl." I'm not sure how that's true, but apparently it is.

So, here is my question to you, Master DJs of SoSuave, how do I go from Femme to Masculine?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Hmmm...i just got done reading my psychology of human sexuality book; the chapter was about your situation kinda. How exactly do you look and act like a girl? You know how guys are "suppose" to act so emulate that. Follow gender roles, observe how other guys behave and stop being so feminine.

 

[Mayfly]

one way is to work out

the other way is to go to prison...they'll masculine you up real nice

 

[CactusMcDougal]

Hmmm...i just got done reading my psychology of human sexuality book; the chapter was about your situation kinda. How exactly do you look and act like a girl? You know how guys are "suppose" to act so emulate that. Follow gender roles, observe how other guys behave and stop being so feminine.

For the looks, I've got kind of a rounded face, thin lips, slender jawline. I also have sort of shapely legs, probably genetics since most of my family has muscular legs. I'm not really sure how I act feminine; I was just told that by a female ex-friend.

the other way is to go to prison...they'll masculine you up real nice

I don't like the idea of that...I'm not into forced homosexual relations and other generally life-threatening situations.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

I'd also recommend hitting the weights. You ca'nt really change your face, but you can change your body.

As for how you act, I'm not exactly sure what you do, so I don't know what you need to change.

 

[Mr. Unique]

3 things you should do

1. Masterbate only once a week, that will increase testosterone.
2. Eat lots of red meat.
3. Go to the gym, lift weights.

Oh and read this

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/link.php?postID=16903&postTitle=Pook+-+Be+a+Man!

 

[GaryUranga]

also, use masculine body language, pretend youre a truck driver for a while

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

I'd recommend reading "The Book of Pook"

Pook does a good job explaining the philosophy of masculinity as well as how to achieve it.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf

 

[Bling]

I already know what it is. Get a hair cut. You know how many guys are starting to look like chicks with those long hair cuts. ****ing metros.:crackup:

 

[CactusMcDougal]

I already know what it is. Get a hair cut. You know how many guys are starting to look like chicks with those long hair cuts. ****ing metros.:crackup:

Actually, my hair isn't that long. I do have a slight mullet in the back, but other than that everything else is short. Several months ago, I had a buzz cut, actually.

 

[MetalFortress]

Kill the mullet. NOW.

And lift weights.

 

[CactusMcDougal]

Kill the mullet. NOW.

And lift weights.

SLIGHT mullet. It doesn't have the length to really be called a mullet. I DO, however, have Wolverine sideburns. (Wolverine from X-Men, if you didn't know.) Do you have any recommendations as to how I should get my hair styled?

As for lifting weights, how exactly? Free weight? Machine weight? I've never been on a serious weight lifting regimen before. I did run track for a couple of weeks.

1. Masterbate only once a week, that will increase testosterone.
2. Eat lots of red meat.
3. Go to the gym, lift weights.

1. Do you have any tips on how to do this? Pornography isn't scarce in my abode, if you know what I mean.

2. My mother is a vegetarian making it very hard to convince her to buy meat.

3. I use the college's gym as part of my P.E. course. Do you have any advice on how and what to lift?

also, use masculine body language, pretend youre a truck driver for a while

I find most truck drivers I know to be vulgar and garish, and they don't attract a lot of women. (Of course, then again, to get a woman in Dallas, you have to be making $100K per annum.)

 

[Kev07]

lets see, you want to do bench press, bicep curls, some sort of shoulder excercise, squats are good too, if you have small forearms like me, do forearm curls also.

why does she have to buy meat? buy your own meat.

 

[GaryUranga]

it was an analogy, keep a manly presence with your body language, watch movies with guys that have manly body language.

also, to not masterbate, just dont do it.. or get busy, when theres things going on you dont feel the urge to do it much

 

[Lompa]

one way is to work out

the other way is to go to prison...they'll masculine you up real nice

Lol...

Try to change your style, get a new haircut, buy new cloths and etc'.

 

[GaryUranga]

if youre saying a haircut will make him look more masculine you might be right, but.. Ive got medium hair, lot LONG not short, las friday 2 girls were basically jerking off to it they were saying "nice hair" and touching it