She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have met women who were proud that they don't know how to cook. As if it was a badge of honour for "modern" "liberalized" women. I said that I can cook. It is called taking care of yourself. Morons.MisterD said:I'm sorry if I come across as an archie bunker misogynist but men and women have different gender roles. that's just the way it is. our difference doesn't begin and end with our sex organs. biologically we are wired differently. it's just plain science. we use different parts of our brain.
simply put, men are men, women are women
i feel like now, more than ever, women are refusing to fulfill their gender roles
one example: how many chicks my age know how to cook? cook well? i dont mean i want some barefoot stepford wife cooking me gourmet dinners while i'm the only one working, but damn--it's like women want to totally disregard being feminine now and instead want to be dudes with vaginas.
we have enough dudes with vaginas, they're called afcs
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Of course she completely ignores the Inventors Shop set that was mentioned earlier in the article."What it's doing is telling girls that this is what's important to you," Edell said of the beauty parlor and hot tub sets. "Girls aren't building space shuttles, they're getting their nails done."